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by Lia
Wed Jun 20, 2018 3:14 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

You're speaking as though this has happened more than once with this candidate...and it hasn't. Just to clear that bit up for anyone interested. Ok, this candidate has been booted more then once from the team so don’t come here acting like it has happened only once...so unless you have anything use...
by Lia
Tue Jun 19, 2018 3:09 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

You're speaking as though this has happened more than once with this candidate...and it hasn't. Just to clear that bit up for anyone interested.
by Lia
Wed Apr 04, 2018 3:23 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

If you want to spout code of conduct or terms of service (AVEN's) to me, you should know them.

Saying you're lying about things isn't my word against yours - there's proof...on AVEN ;)
by Lia
Tue Apr 03, 2018 4:04 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

You can vent about misconduct. Just don't lie while doing it. If you feel you were wronged, you have every right to feel that way. Don't twist facts to suit your narrative. That's what brought me to respond to your posts here, Jayce.
by Lia
Mon Apr 02, 2018 7:52 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

1. Didn't know you deactivated your account. It's not a thread in Admods I follow. So yeah. That's a thing. 2. What? Okay so you confronted me on AVEN, in a thread, in Site Comments. And I answered your posts. And you circled back to everything you said before I answered. So...what was there to answ...
by Lia
Mon Apr 02, 2018 3:15 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Okie dokie. Let's get a few things straight, shall we? Fun fact is that i didn't even report the person but they made it look like a report and they ignored my question that i wanted this to be brought to the backroom that staff shouldn't ignore members!I almost ended up losing my shit because of th...
by Lia
Wed Sep 14, 2016 4:20 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Admods do not review suspended accounts and reach out to see who would like to "rejoin". If you would like to "review" whether or not you would like to "rejoin" and decide you would, it is your job to contact the Admods and request your account be reactivated.
by Lia
Tue Aug 23, 2016 12:04 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

That's the status quo of Admods. The veteran ones steer clear of threads like that because it makes them look bad, and the new ones only want to help keep things running smoothly and so they try to answer the concerns of the many while 100% HAVING to post that "this is just my opinion!" le...
by Lia
Sat Aug 20, 2016 4:35 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Here's the thing with current Admods. They break down into 3 groups:

The ones who see no problem because the current system gives them 90% of the power.
The ones who are too passive to see AND admit the problem.
The ones who are too new to realize the problem.
by Lia
Sun May 29, 2016 5:27 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

To be fair to Tea, while I have my own gripes about her both personally and professionally, setting up a forum in the ACP is tricky, and it's not done very often. So while it's very easy for an outsider to say "well she's been an Admin longer than I've been on AVEN she should know how to do it!...
by Lia
Fri May 27, 2016 4:20 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

As far as the term limit vs stepping down goes: Cosine has posted a thread in Site Comments announcing her stepping down from the PT. Steph joined the PT in June 2015, which tells me she has also stepped down. LPP looks to have joined the PT in Dec 2014, which tells me, too, that they have stepped d...
by Lia
Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:42 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

DJ is in NYC, at least as of a couple of years ago. I spoke with him on Skype about something that had been going on in Admods at the time and he said he was working in NYC.
by Lia
Thu Mar 10, 2016 2:43 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

The eff good does becoming an Admod do? 3 out of the 5 Admins refuse to help further change and the Admods, mostly, are too new to even know where to start.
by Lia
Sun Mar 06, 2016 11:32 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I voted to let you run in that thread, Ciri, if it means anything. I remember the discussion but I haven't re-read all the pages, just the first so I can't comment to the rest until I wake up more.
by Lia
Tue Mar 01, 2016 1:40 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

There she is :lol: hello stranger Lia wouldn't simply changings strivna's entry time to 1 minute before tans correct this so he comes up as the o/p as was the case? I don't think that we can change the entry time? I mean, we could have but it was in that weird coded time thing that included the dat...
by Lia
Tue Mar 01, 2016 11:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Honestly..just WTF????? Aven dishes out far too many nudges, warnings and bans...want to know who has also said this?...when you look they will have banned under their name Most agree Aven is special snowflake central.....so, often nudges, warnings and bans are not issued on what a person has said....
by Lia
Mon Feb 29, 2016 11:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I just suggested a public log of declassified threads. Doubt it'll happen but it's out there.
by Lia
Mon Feb 29, 2016 5:48 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They may review it but it's unlikely that anything will be changed. Most often, they want to "give it some time" to "see if it has any effect" before reverting a change, and then it gets lost in the shuffle and forgotten.
by Lia
Sun Feb 28, 2016 8:33 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They hid the entire section of forums, which is the stupidest effing thing I've ever heard of. "It's got nothing to do with asexuality or visibility and they're all of a personal nature so we'll hide that entire thing even though it's a fairly busy part of the forum all together and no one has ...
by Lia
Wed Feb 17, 2016 6:59 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

There are such things as "innate desires", ones that are built into human beings as a whole but yet can be absent. I have no innate desire to have sex with anyone. It's not simply "No, I don't want to have sex with you tonight" it's "No, I don't want to have sex with you, ev...
by Lia
Tue Feb 16, 2016 7:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Yeah no. That in no way defines sexual attraction. That only argues why the way I define it is wrong but it doesn't correct the definition. Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's a...
by Lia
Tue Feb 16, 2016 5:52 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

When someone can accurately define "sexual attraction" to me in terms that I can understand, I will stop using "I do not desire to have sex with anyone, regardless of gender and therefore I am asexual" as my definition.
by Lia
Tue Feb 09, 2016 3:18 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

We tried to keep such posts in forums like (h)AVEN and T&S, with appropriate trigger warnings. When I modded T&S, I rode a very fine line of "okay" and "not okay". I tried to, whenever possible, help the member edit their posts so that it would be okay for the open boards...
by Lia
Mon Feb 08, 2016 2:17 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Admins don't have more "power". More buttons, but not more "power".
by Lia
Mon Feb 08, 2016 3:47 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

...Again.... He's still a moderator just not an admin? O_o
by Lia
Sun Feb 07, 2016 9:30 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Pook, as far as I know, has only stepped down from being an Admin, into a Mod role as I did. He hasn't said anything to me about leaving Admods completely.
by Lia
Wed Feb 03, 2016 1:16 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

DJ being active on AVEN (or signing into it) has nothing to do with the emails. You can't check them from AVEN. You check them from a gmail client.
by Lia
Wed Feb 03, 2016 7:51 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

If it was a nudge, it didn't necessarily have to be a team decision, either. If it wasn't, I hope the Admod who sent it was helped to understand why it might not have been a good idea..but I doubt that anything was said to the Admod.
by Lia
Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:39 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Wish I had been able to be part of that discussion...
by Lia
Tue Feb 02, 2016 4:30 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 309609

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Each report is supposed to be adjudged as though no mod knows who it is...then they judge the reported incident on the actual incident and not the personality involved and how it sits against the tos and not prejudge it with comments like "O it's xyz again" In a perfect world... But, also...