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by CatBunny
Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:51 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Heyoooo
Replies: 4
Views: 273

Re: Heyoooo

Squish is like a term for a platonic crush. I guess you're an Aromantic Heterosexual to be exact? Also, hi! I'm aromantic too. Nice to see another aro.
by CatBunny
Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:43 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope
Replies: 4
Views: 211

Re: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope

my prognosis for the emotional health and happiness of future generations is pretty grim at this point, to put it mildly. I'm just hoping maybe it'll calm down like it does in the past. There's always a massive outrage in history and then it mellows out. Most can happen is more visibility and more ...
by CatBunny
Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:37 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope
Replies: 4
Views: 211

Re: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope

I don't know about you, but I don't even bother with talking about ace related things outside of here (and rarely on here for reasons) and counseling/therapy. Otherwise, I just occasionally tell people I'm an ace (my public label and the most true one) and move on. It saves me a lot of drama and le...
by CatBunny
Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:31 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Allow Me To Introduce Myself
Replies: 4
Views: 239

Re: Allow Me To Introduce Myself

Hi, welcome. I'm sure i'm 100% aromantic if that helps. Hope you figure yourself out if you're wondering.
by CatBunny
Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:28 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: questions.
Replies: 5
Views: 312

Re: questions.

Being gay is attracted to the same sex. If masturbation makes you gay than everyones gay lol
by CatBunny
Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:24 am
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope
Replies: 4
Views: 211

Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope

Been bored and busy looking around at other ace places and it always the same dumb stuff just in varying quantities, I had to leave because I couldn't take it. Made an ace friend in real life and turned out to be extremely rude and sporting a type A personality you could only dream of and every ace ...
by CatBunny
Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:10 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 9
Views: 576

Re: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

Left for a while and came back. Aw cool! You got it finally up!
by CatBunny
Fri Jun 30, 2017 6:32 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 9
Views: 576

Re: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

I'm glad you guys like it! I've been trying to recommend this forum to an ace discord at least to get some activity. Maybe we'll see more people, who knows.
by CatBunny
Sat Mar 18, 2017 10:21 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..
Replies: 9
Views: 2512

Re: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..

Yeah, people have mentioned discord to me a few times. Isn't it gamer orientated?


No, not that I know of. Everyones replacing it with skype now and is used for everything outside of games. I guess skype is becoming old news.
by CatBunny
Sat Mar 11, 2017 10:51 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Disability and asexual ?
Replies: 15
Views: 3460

Re: Disability and asexual ?

I know depression causes low sex drive and impotency but that and asexuality are pretty different things. Just my two cents.
by CatBunny
Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Poly
Replies: 50
Views: 22870

Re: Poly

Poly is a choice at least that's what I know after years of trying to understand it apparently it's just a social thing humans and other animals figure out what works for them. Apparently being monogomous is even more of a choice and poly is a status quo type deal. As for me being aro I envisioned I...
by CatBunny
Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:22 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello from a confused individual
Replies: 2
Views: 505

Re: Hello from a confused individual

First you need to take a break, relax and sit back. Let what happens happen in terms of thoughts, you don't need to find a relationship platonic or not. If you're still questioning or coming to terms with it, it takes a while and you never know. People take years, decades before they can figure out ...
by CatBunny
Fri Jan 20, 2017 7:27 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 4117

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

ah cool, would you like me to PM some sketches, maybe?
by CatBunny
Fri Jan 20, 2017 5:12 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 4117

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

Well they do have lesbisn relationships so maybe they're more gay than asexual even if they reproduce asexually lol. I think bees are great since you can use their striped abdomen for the flag and you got a queen bee, maybe call it queen of aces or something.
by CatBunny
Thu Jan 19, 2017 5:17 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 4117

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

What kinds of ideas do you have? I really like the idea of a mascot. I always felt an affinity toward honeybees as good little asexuals, but some people are creeped out by them and I never tried to follow up on it. A cute, readily recognizable mascot might be just the thing. I'm sure a stylistic be...
by CatBunny
Wed Jan 18, 2017 5:45 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: qu'est-ce que c'est?
Replies: 2
Views: 641

Re: qu'est-ce que c'est?

People want to put politics into everything but Asexuality is biological and is the lack of attractions to all genders/sexs. People try to think it's caused by a ton of things and put their agenda behind it or barely know what it is but nothing is denying it's biological. It will and always be 100% ...
by CatBunny
Wed Jan 18, 2017 5:41 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 4117

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

I'm a graphic designer/concept artist, maybe I could help. I could spice it up with a lot of things like a mascot or something if you want. Maybe make it available to other aces or allies on one of those popular t-shirt sites. Someone's bound to buy it if you advertise it all over social media sites...
by CatBunny
Sat Jan 14, 2017 1:59 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: do you still...
Replies: 2
Views: 663

Re: do you still...

I know people who kiss ass to get to the top and act phoney and helpful but still manage to not be a truly amoral human being. I mean I don't care, I wouldn't be friends with them but I wouldn't really care. There's a lot of selfish people out there but eh, what can you do. It's not like they're kil...
by CatBunny
Mon Dec 26, 2016 10:18 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: your view of the irresolvable
Replies: 5
Views: 658

Re: your view of the irresolvable

I think if we ponder that there must be something deeper to our existence we are just going to get depressed realizing we aren't that great. I just accept life as it is, to expect more is just the human condition to feed our ego. Maybe we should just realize that being a dumb animal is better than n...
by CatBunny
Mon Dec 26, 2016 10:10 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: A bit late but still trying
Replies: 2
Views: 820

Re: A bit late but still trying

It seems a little more alive than normal recently. I guess I'm technically cis even though i've been rather androgynous my whole life. I always felt I had mild gender dysphoria but I can understand going through more stronger confusion regarding ones gender. It's okay, it takes time to understand on...
by CatBunny
Mon Dec 26, 2016 9:59 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..
Replies: 9
Views: 2512

Re: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..

Well I'm an atheist, rationalist and a skeptic haha.
Hey, maybe we can make an ace discord group though time zones might screw it up.
by CatBunny
Thu Dec 15, 2016 6:16 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Identifying my aromance and asexuality
Replies: 5
Views: 991

Re: Identifying my aromance and asexuality

I'm being very blunt but there are a lot of terms out there that I think are just fancier terms for queer, questioning or people who confuse their anxiety and their sexuality or over describe something that already has a term for it. Like galaxygender is just fancier term for agender because galaxie...
by CatBunny
Thu Dec 15, 2016 5:51 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1799

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

You'll note that I haven't said anything about clothes for modesty. Clothes for modesty only promote salaciousness. In the English-speaking world we aren't generally aware that people in other linguistic groups, such as France and Germany, are pretty blase about nudity because it's culturally accep...
by CatBunny
Wed Dec 14, 2016 7:33 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1799

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

I don't think I would see any problem with it at all as long as it stayed in the privacy of a person's home. I'm not sure if it would help body image issues or not, but it probably wouldn't hurt. well getting an exotic infection from sitting around naked has always been kinda a horror story i've al...
by CatBunny
Wed Dec 14, 2016 7:30 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?
Replies: 3
Views: 746

Re: So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?

I would say that it's not worth the worry, but then you might feel otherwise. The main thing (to me) would be to make sure that there aren't any potential health issues associated with it, and if there are then to beware of them and take preventative measures if possible. As for whether or not you'...
by CatBunny
Tue Dec 13, 2016 11:37 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1799

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

As for nudity helping to overcome body image problems . . . ? Yes, I think it might. That is, if plenty of other people are also nude, because humans really do come in a variety of shapes and sizes, all of which are perfectly valid, and almost none of them are perfect modeling candidates. I don't t...
by CatBunny
Tue Dec 13, 2016 11:28 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?
Replies: 3
Views: 746

So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?

I've been having hormone problem for years and my doctors basically never told what I have. I don't have low hormones just too much androgen. Now I got a new doctor telling me I either have PCOS or a congenital androgen disorder. Maybe it's a possible congenital defect that makes me think I'm asexua...
by CatBunny
Sat Oct 22, 2016 3:06 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1799

How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

Saw a post online saying you can overcome sex repulsion and hatred of you body if you go around naked 24/7 , wear a lot of lingerie, take photos of yourself every minute, have tons of sex and so many asexuals are saying yes, this a great idea and sharing this encouraging ace people to do the same. I...
by CatBunny
Thu Oct 06, 2016 12:44 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Please help
Replies: 6
Views: 2051

Re: Please help

Hi! I never had to deal with that stuff but I understand the type of world you're coming from. Why Homosexuality was seen as sinful is just because a same sex couple can't reproduce much like how in some religions not washing your hands before eating is sinful. Nowadays things are different, we know...
by CatBunny
Thu Oct 06, 2016 12:19 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Banned from AVEN, so I came here
Replies: 5
Views: 1297

Re: Banned from AVEN, so I came here

Aven is basically asexual tumblr at this point. Welcome to Apositive, we're a little more open here.