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by Vivaldi Ives
Wed Mar 30, 2016 2:07 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206603

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Given that Thrasymachus does not appear to be a long-term AVEN member, I wonder why on earth he feels the need to bash the site and its users...
by Vivaldi Ives
Wed Mar 30, 2016 2:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Bread
Replies: 3
Views: 808

Re: Bread

"I find that a duck's opinion of me is greatly influenced by whether or not I have bread."--Mitch Hedberg
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Feb 29, 2016 6:47 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday Tanwen
Replies: 11
Views: 1663

Re: Happy Birthday Tanwen

Happy birthday :D
by Vivaldi Ives
Wed Feb 24, 2016 6:49 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5714

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

I attack everyone from behind, throwing apples that pack a powerful punch. Better for attack than they are for eating, in my opinion.
by Vivaldi Ives
Tue Feb 23, 2016 8:50 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5714

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

*Gathers secret weapons, AKA some of the fruits I like least*
by Vivaldi Ives
Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:59 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206603

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I just can't with AVEN right now. Same with Apositive. Good luck with everything guys--I don't know when I'll be back.
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Jan 25, 2016 8:50 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: So what now for Asexuality?
Replies: 7
Views: 2315

Re: So what now for Asexuality?

We can hope more people come over here? :p I'm not sure how to increase visibility of asexuality outside the LGBT realm. That is a serious issue though, because, for example, conservative religious folks might accept asexuality as valid much easier if it were not tied to the LGBT world they so love ...
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Jan 24, 2016 2:46 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Oscars and those with chip on their shoulders
Replies: 11
Views: 2270

Re: Oscars and those with chip on their shoulders

Well said, PiF. And I don't think a few people boycotting the Oscars is going to make any difference in who's nominated for awards next year. I think a bigger problem is the stereotyping and typecasting of women and minority actors, rather than the lack of said actors. But I don't know what it will ...
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Jan 24, 2016 10:45 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206603

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Thanks Kagu! I don't remember all this debate over definitions happening when I first found AVEN, and yet I figured out I'm asexual :) I agree, it seems like sexuals don't seem to be so invested in the debate. Actually, my favorite "definition" of asexuality I've found is this checklist......
by Vivaldi Ives
Sat Jan 23, 2016 7:25 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206603

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

The link goes directly to a post partway down the page, and I am on my phone so I did not see the thread title. Upon examination, if I had found that thread on my own I would have discovered by reading the first post that I did not want to read further. But I don't just avoid anything saying TMI, be...
by Vivaldi Ives
Sat Jan 23, 2016 6:10 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: The Goodbye Thread
Replies: 7
Views: 1975

Re: The Goodbye Thread

So sorry to hear about Tiko. :( He is adorable in that pic!
by Vivaldi Ives
Sat Jan 23, 2016 6:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206603

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Just wow, how to keep it classy http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/133174-tmi-warning-what-makes-an-asexual/?hl=semen#entry1061585084 I definitely dislike PanFicto's indecent comment. I have never had sex with anyone, never wanted to Same here. I agree, SpanishDuchess, very indecent, why did I foll...
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Dec 20, 2015 3:32 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Christmas Craíc On The 19th
Replies: 19
Views: 4658

Re: Christmas Craíc On The 19th

I shall do my best to arrive at the next get-together in a more timely manner. :) My apologies to Doctor Ledin.
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:55 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Christmas Craíc On The 19th
Replies: 19
Views: 4658

Re: Christmas Craíc On The 19th

I'm here! Apparently I didn't receive the invitation in time. Sorry if I'm rather quiet at the party--I just scrambled out of bed to get here and am still a bit sleepy!

Is there any food left...?
by Vivaldi Ives
Sat Dec 12, 2015 5:20 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: It's Finally Here - Herb Wars
Replies: 41
Views: 9447

Re: It's Finally Here - Herb Wars

I'm using a hair dryer to blow lemon pepper seasoning your way! Careful not to sneeze!
by Vivaldi Ives
Thu Dec 10, 2015 7:08 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: It's Finally Here - Herb Wars
Replies: 41
Views: 9447

Re: It's Finally Here - Herb Wars

(Drops rosemary bombs from a flying drone)
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Nov 30, 2015 8:50 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: *waves* hi
Replies: 7
Views: 6052

Re: *waves* hi

There's an asexuality meetup group in Lincoln! I've been to one meeting so far. Let me know if you want more info!
by Vivaldi Ives
Tue Sep 22, 2015 6:48 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Hey sexy Asexuals...can you tell me? tmi
Replies: 5
Views: 1932

Re: Hey sexy Asexuals...can you tell me? tmi

I have no questions at the moment, but this is a great idea for a thread, so thank you PiF!
by Vivaldi Ives
Fri Sep 18, 2015 4:43 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: College sexual abuse tmi
Replies: 1
Views: 1233

Re: College sexual abuse tmi

Luckily I never experienced this situation myself, but I just recently found out that a family member was assaulted in college and didn't tell anyone about it for a year. I'm so upset on her behalf and at this point there's nothing really I can do about it.
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Sep 13, 2015 8:45 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Chat Thread
Replies: 173
Views: 14835

Re: Chat Thread

I am 5' 5", pretty average height but I am short compared to the rest of my family! My parents, grandparents, and siblings are all taller (or will probably be taller when fully grown) than me. I was very self conscious about being tall as a kid, but I don't think I got much taller after puberty...
by Vivaldi Ives
Sun Sep 13, 2015 7:35 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Asexuality is nothing to do with having children
Replies: 13
Views: 3581

Re: Asexuality is nothing to do with having children

I've waffled back and forth on the idea of kids, but I currently don't want any. I actually feel more of a maternal impulse towards cats (probably towards animals in general) than I do towards humans. I would, however, like to find ways to be a positive influence on the younger generations as I get ...
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Sep 07, 2015 7:38 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Inheritance.... your kids right?
Replies: 10
Views: 3356

Re: Inheritance.... your kids right?

I doubt I'll receive anything of great monetary value from my parents, as they are not well off and I have several siblings as well. As for my own legacy, I hope to amass some wealth, but I do not plan on having children so I would like my earthly belongings to benefit those most in need. When I sta...
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Sep 07, 2015 7:32 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Virgins?
Replies: 37
Views: 6830

Re: Virgins?

I am still a virgin and so are several (maybe even more than several) of my college friends. I can see myself potentially having sex out of curiosity if I find and marry "the one" later in life, but at this point the idea of sex is somewhat frightening/anxiety-inducing/disgusting, somethin...
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Sep 07, 2015 7:08 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Viv has arrived!
Replies: 8
Views: 2131

Re: Viv has arrived!

Thank you for the welcoming, everyone :)
by Vivaldi Ives
Mon Sep 07, 2015 7:05 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: What to tell your 16 year old self
Replies: 16
Views: 4795

Re: This will work more here than in Aven 8-)

Dear 16-year-old Viv: No matter how hard life feels right now, you're going to make it through okay. You are very frustrated by yourself and by life right now, but things are going to get so much better. Bad memories won't completely go away...and let's face it, there will be a lot more bad things t...
by Vivaldi Ives
Thu Sep 03, 2015 7:03 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Viv has arrived!
Replies: 8
Views: 2131

Viv has arrived!

Hello everyone! I'm not on AVEN much anymore these days, and when I do log in, I just post in a particular JFF thread that's become my "home," but I recently discovered that some cool AVENites seem to have migrated over to Apositive...so count me in too! Not sure what else to say...I'm rea...