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by Spider
Wed Sep 16, 2015 3:10 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 327698

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Oh :c that reminds me of a site I was a mod of for a bit. Not sure if i feel like typing out the story... but basically I was a member who was recruited, but the others left me in the dark. I was dropped when I apparently broke one of their many unspoken rules? (don't share any modding information.....
by Spider
Wed Sep 16, 2015 2:49 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Asexuality as bullies
Replies: 13
Views: 3591

Re: Asexuality as bullies

There is so much civil war in ... any community really. It's like we as humans just can't accept something new or different. It's highly hypocritical for us to be like that, fighting for respect, but at the same time refusing to respect those "under" them? Also, in regards to what you said...
by Spider
Wed Sep 16, 2015 2:31 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Women never could make their mind up
Replies: 4
Views: 3359

Re: Women never could make their mind up

It does take some getting used to and research to fully understand. Would be happy to talk about it the best I can if you wish? But yeah, bisexual doesn't mean experiment, sure there are the few bad eggs that basically use the title for god knows why, but as a whole it is a valid orientation. Read t...
by Spider
Wed Sep 16, 2015 2:05 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 327698

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I was curious what aven was ... that was one of the first sites I looked at while searching for a community. I mean yeah they have some ...questionable views (referring to their over inclusion of allies), but over all seem accepting and friendly -shrug- Guess will read some of the posts here when I ...
by Spider
Wed Sep 16, 2015 1:44 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: aromantic suggestion
Replies: 9
Views: 4414

aromantic suggestion

I realize that the original intent for this site was asexuality, but there are also basically no social community for aros. How do you guys feel about a Romance/Aromantic section (under Sexuality) or w/e. Also, the "Apositive Knowledge Base" is a pretty cool concept, but feel it might bene...
by Spider
Tue Sep 15, 2015 6:12 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Women never could make their mind up
Replies: 4
Views: 3359

Re: Women never could make their mind up

I feel this ties in with how society segregates the two main genders. For instance, it would be "safer" for a cis female to say the she is bi while looking for a relationship, that it would be for a cis male. Hetero cis males will date a bi cis woman in a heart beat thinking they can get a...
by Spider
Tue Sep 15, 2015 6:00 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationships with exe's?
Replies: 17
Views: 7182

Re: Relationships with exe's?

I am friends with only one ex, and ...friendly to two others. I tend to end up either "crushing hearts" or "not loving enough". Basically receiving romance makes me feel highly uncomfortable, but despite telling people they still do it so ...it's hard to tell them i'm leaving bec...
by Spider
Tue Sep 15, 2015 5:31 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: a little hello
Replies: 6
Views: 2973

a little hello

Hi you can call me Chris or Spider idc I am demigirl, she/they I recently found a term that fits how I have been feeling, and am both excited and upset about it. I am Grey-Asexual and Pan-Lithromantic the Lithromantic was the discovery It scares me because it is so ...odd to basically everyone, and ...