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by seaserpent
Sun Jan 28, 2018 9:10 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded
Replies: 52
Views: 14049

Re: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded

. . . asexuality isn't determined or defined by behavior. It's determined by what the person PREFERS to do.


I live consciously, not behaviorally.
My behavior is incidental, semi-conscious and reflects nothing of my attraction or desire.
by seaserpent
Sun Jan 28, 2018 8:59 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: qu'est-ce que c'est?
Replies: 3
Views: 1750

Re: qu'est-ce que c'est?

Asexuality is not something I think about much. I experience it. And it's hard to ignore something if you are experiencing it. My asexuality has affected my relationships and how I see the world. Period. To rationalize or justify a thing is not to comprehend it. To experience this particular thing a...
by seaserpent
Sun Jan 28, 2018 8:50 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: History: Asexuality & the Nonlibidoism society
Replies: 28
Views: 44201

Re: History: Asexuality & the Nonlibidoism society

I remember commenting on the non-libidoist society definition of asexuality at AVEN some years ago. I found their case to be irrational and invalid on a biological and experiential level. I figured then that the appeal of Miss Geri's group was to pride; that they created their identity on the rock o...
by seaserpent
Sun Jan 28, 2018 7:32 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Just a doctor researcher
Replies: 3
Views: 1234

Just a doctor researcher

Hello. My name at AVEN is mindlife and I've taken the name seaserpent here because that creature was the subject of my dissertation. I still post at AVEN, but my communication there is narrow in subject. I stick to asexuality 101, read our faqs, reflect etc. I'm in a relationship that's lasted almo...