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by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 31, 2018 10:30 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hey there everyone!!
Replies: 3
Views: 1117

Re: Hey there everyone!!

Welcome Skepa, like you I regret even being a member of AVEN. But they are good for the meet-ups. The members bear very little IRL to what they say they are on-line
by Cavalier080854
Sun Mar 18, 2018 1:34 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 301831

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Well I have been warned about elitism and invalidating others. I deny no ones identity, if one person's view destroys another then it is a pretty weak identity. If you only want affirmation, then the world will not accommodate you. You have to be strong internally, to msny people have mental issues ...
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 17, 2018 2:35 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality
Replies: 22
Views: 9744

Re: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality

Alas most of the kids who identify as Ace have pink tinge now. This is something which I have never felt being a part of. I show my face to show that we are not a current fashion identity trend.
I'm friends of some of the gay community, not part of it, but welcomed.
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 15, 2018 3:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Poly
Replies: 51
Views: 31738

Re: Poly

I leave this sort of thing to the sexuals. Too much hassle. I'm ace so none of it means a thing to me, totally beyond my comprehension, but not imagination.
Keep that stuff away from me. Platonic is where it's at for me.
by Cavalier080854
Wed Mar 14, 2018 10:17 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Old Ace Codger here
Replies: 8
Views: 1703

Re: Old Ace Codger here

We had to wear tiny cameras which looked at the pupils and were designed to check exactly where you were looking as well as pupil dilation. Overall, Asexuals scored extremely high in honesty rating of saying what we were looking at as oppossed to what we say we were looking at. Sexuals, especially w...
by Cavalier080854
Wed Mar 14, 2018 10:09 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is the term POC racist?
Replies: 10
Views: 3010

Re: Is the term POC racist?

Ciri , I was told you were member4445 and all the evidence showed you were the same person , in a single thread with you and myself in AVEN, you said you were called Claire by a workmate, but you said you were not Claire . You said your boss has started calling you Claire . I called you Claire in an...
by Cavalier080854
Wed Mar 14, 2018 2:08 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded
Replies: 52
Views: 13690

Re: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded

Only a minuscule percent of the population is born ace.

I am one of those people, so I always feel I am in a different world to the Asexual community.
by Cavalier080854
Mon Mar 12, 2018 5:15 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality
Replies: 22
Views: 9744

Re: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality

I am becoming more disgraceful with age, and I'm 63. I act my shoe size, not my age. I don't care
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 10, 2018 4:33 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality
Replies: 22
Views: 9744

Re: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality

I do have an Asexual flag as well as an Aromantic flag, plus a 2 metre flag pole to wave them at the same time.
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 10, 2018 11:09 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded
Replies: 52
Views: 13690

Re: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded

I do not do anything except friendship. Attraction has never been a part of me, it is fixed, has been since birth. I always let my emotions go in friendships to see if I feel anything about my friends. I do not fix Asexuality to myself and ignore what may happen. Too many kids feel attached to label...
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 10, 2018 10:59 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded
Replies: 52
Views: 13690

Re: No sexual desire/attraction claims are wrongheaded

Yes, GGTOW (gays going their own way). See Prince of Queens channel on YouTube for blogs and live threads on this. Gay men are fed up with being bossed about by SJWs and Lesbians. The original acronym was GLTB, this only exists in the archives of the LGBT community. Dykes on bikes lead the Pride eve...
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 10, 2018 10:53 am
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality
Replies: 22
Views: 9744

Re: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality

The only disadvantage is that the Pride in Durham on 28/5/18 (a bank holiday) usually involves acts which are appallingly awful. Last year had Jedward and the previous year the Cheeky Girls (Google them). Prepare to vomit.
by Cavalier080854
Sat Mar 10, 2018 10:49 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Old Ace Codger here
Replies: 8
Views: 1703

Re: Old Ace Codger here

Well sexual attraction is usually accompanied by pupil dilation, the observer can pick up on this along with a longer stare. The Naked Ape as well as relationship experts have said this phenomena is real and observable, so biology and emotions do exist and not a social construct.
by Cavalier080854
Fri Mar 09, 2018 10:59 am
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: 15 Reasons You're An Asexual Moron
Replies: 10
Views: 4270

Re: 15 Reasons You're An Asexual Moron

It seems that Milo Stewart used Asexuality to avoid being chatted up by men. Later she enjoyed BDSM, fetishism is rare in aces. She has also said she is trans, but shows no sign of the effects of hormonal influences. There are enough videos of ftm to see this in effect. Buzzcuts do not change your s...
by Cavalier080854
Fri Mar 09, 2018 10:50 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Old Ace Codger here
Replies: 8
Views: 1703

Re: Old Ace Codger here

I was part of a 1998 study along with 5 other Aces, the youngest being 37, the oldest 72 (I thought she was 58 max) on Asexuality. The common factor being, all of use were clinically diagnosed in the 60/70s. The main thrust was looking at physical effects on Asexuals of images (static and dynamic) u...
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 4:32 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality
Replies: 22
Views: 9744

Re: Would you go to a lgbt pride event for asexuality

I will be attending this years Pride at Durham, UK, in May
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 4:24 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: 15 Reasons You're An Asexual Moron
Replies: 10
Views: 4270

Re: 15 Reasons You're An Asexual Moron

J S Decker roasted by Undoomed. I saw that when it first came out and thought it was amusing.
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 4:16 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Working on an Article for a Magazine
Replies: 6
Views: 1331

Re: Working on an Article for a Magazine

The only people who care to make Asexuals public are under 25. The rest of the Aces over 25 don't care, it never crosses our minds from 1 day to another for years at a time. Only resurfacing when interacting with new close friends.
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 3:17 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Working on an Article for a Magazine
Replies: 6
Views: 1331

Re: Working on an Article for a Magazine

No one cares about Aces. This from an old ace of 63. Straights treat us with benign neglect and LGBT with informed indifference. I was thrown off a Pride event in 1982 for being too normal, what ever that is. I have never been welcomed in that community, but I am with its individuals. I'm still a vi...
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 1:57 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is the term POC racist?
Replies: 10
Views: 3010

Re: Is the term POC racist?

PoC is gaining round in the UK, but I prefer the term Ethnic Minority, it applies to everyone, all races everywhere in the world. But that infuriates the SJW crowd because it is difficult to refute.
by Cavalier080854
Thu Mar 08, 2018 1:49 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Old Ace Codger here
Replies: 8
Views: 1703

Old Ace Codger here

Hi all. I'm 63, British, male and was clinically diagnosed as Asexual in 1971. So I have been around the block for some time. I was in the military from 1970 to 1981. I am in the electrical industry and passed my degree at the grand old age of 62. Who says you cannot reach an old dog new tricks. I d...