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by cdrdash
Tue May 05, 2015 9:56 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi...
Replies: 5
Views: 1641

Re: Hi...

Hello Addy. :halo:
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 30, 2015 6:49 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Saint Georges Day Huzzahhh
Replies: 4
Views: 1636

Re: Happy Saint Georges Day Huzzahhh

Not allowed to fly a flag on national England day. That's odd. The USA is a bit flag crazy on the 4th of July. Here its OK to celebrate being independent of England. When I lived in England from September 1972 to August 1973 (I was 11-12 years old) , I don't remember celebrating Saint Georges day an...
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 30, 2015 6:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 195184

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I'm beginning to think that the fates that kept me from volunteering to mod on AVEN have done me a favor :roll: Totally nothing to do with this thread but I see apostive has a yawn icon ... been looking for that for a long time ... :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: Although the yawn motion makes it look like goi...
by cdrdash
Wed Apr 29, 2015 1:08 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Saint Georges Day Huzzahhh
Replies: 4
Views: 1636

Re: Happy Saint Georges Day Huzzahhh

Had to google Saint Georges day. So ... happy belated England's national day. How do people in England celebrate Saint Georges day?
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 09, 2015 2:34 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Photo Time
Replies: 2
Views: 1734

Re: Photo Time

I forgot I started this thread. Photos from last weekends hike ... Castle Rock State Park: https://picasaweb.google.com/105234689104952250166/Castle_Rock_4_4_15?authuser=0&authkey=Gv1sRgCIPepu-drPriCA&feat=directlink Eaton and Big Canyon parks: https://picasaweb.google.com/105234689104952250...
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 09, 2015 12:09 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: What was no1 on your birthday?
Replies: 11
Views: 3444

Re: What was no1 on your birthday?

Is this a sneaky way to find out my age? :lol:

In the US: Surrender by Elvis Presley.
In the UK: Wooden Heart by Elvis Presley.

Thank you, Thank you very much.
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 09, 2015 12:01 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Scientific research
Replies: 11
Views: 3419

Re: Scientific research

Carrying on with scientific research results At 09:30 am this morning I visited the doctor who performed a colon check and despite him chuckling as I bent to one side after he had seen the great big W's tattood on each arse cheek, he said everything was fine. So the scientific results today disspro...
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 09, 2015 11:40 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Favourite music videos/songs
Replies: 115
Views: 18015

Re: Favourite music videos/songs

One of my favorite is the acapella group, Street Corner Symphony, singing Leonard Cohen's Hallelujah song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Toga5cWRi0k&list=FLpwh7upEph8MpGo2oFJRvGw&index=8 Although I don't know if it counts as a music video. Its just a performance they did on the TV show, The...
by cdrdash
Fri Apr 03, 2015 8:59 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Am I Asexual?
Replies: 5
Views: 3933

Re: Am I Asexual?

But the examples you list are folks questioning if they are asexual not claiming to be asexual. Now if the answers to these questions were inaccurate I would be worried it was a trend but most answers I see on AVEN and other places do seem to hold true to the AVEN forum definition "someone who ...
by cdrdash
Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:38 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Asexual phone sex
Replies: 5
Views: 3419

Re: Asexual phone sex

I have never had phone sex. The first time I heard about it, it didn't make sense to me or appeal to me at all. Still doesn't appeal to me but I can at least make sense of it. Even if I were sexual I would probably not want phone sex just because I'm not comfortable on phones in general and doing so...
by cdrdash
Fri Mar 27, 2015 10:08 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How far back can you go?
Replies: 2
Views: 1539

Re: How far back can you go?

I vaguely remember hearing the term asexual on the groups soc.women.lesbian-and-bi and soc.motss (members of the same sex) in the 90's after I came out as lesbian So I just did a search on it (these groups are now google groups while they used to be newsgroups) and discovered this quote from soc.wom...
by cdrdash
Thu Mar 26, 2015 1:49 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday cdrDash
Replies: 14
Views: 3540

Re: Happy Birthday cdrDash

Ciri wrote:Happy birthday, Cathy :D

And happy birthday to the rest of you fuckers who forgot my 24th. :p


Were you born on March 24th too or are you referring to the fact that you turned 24 on your last birthday?

Happy Belated Birthday to Ciri!
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 24, 2015 1:10 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday cdrDash
Replies: 14
Views: 3540

Re: Happy Birthday cdrDash

I mostly see them in the wild here in California. There was an incredible field of them on my hike on March 15, 2015: https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4ch2 ... 150185.JPG
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 24, 2015 12:43 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi All Here Top 5 Wealthy Women Dating Sites with reviews
Replies: 0
Views: 1210

Re: Hi All Here Top 5 Wealthy Women Dating Sites with reviews

I'm not seriously looking for a life pertner (is that like a cowboy partner??) and even if I were how much money they make is not at the top of my list as an important factor. If you are advertising on this forum, an asexuality forum, you should really give us a link to all those rich asexuals :lol:
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 24, 2015 12:19 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday cdrDash
Replies: 14
Views: 3540

Re: Happy Birthday cdrDash

Tanwen wrote:Looks like a lupin (lupinus). I love lupins :)

Yes a Lupin. It was unusual since it was yellow and not the usual violet.
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 24, 2015 5:48 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday cdrDash
Replies: 14
Views: 3540

Re: Happy Birthday cdrDash

Thanks Pif and Tanwen.

Image

I turn 54 years old today!!
by cdrdash
Sat Mar 14, 2015 3:54 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meetup.com RSVP rant
Replies: 7
Views: 1904

Re: Meetup.com RSVP rant

I'm not sure why the meetup organizer chose 20 but I like that limit as most of the time with a 20 count the hike ends up being 9 to 12 people. Its no fun leading much more than 15 people for me. The crowd gets spread out and I, the leader, have to do lots of counting and going back and forth to mak...
by cdrdash
Fri Mar 13, 2015 11:44 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meetup.com RSVP rant
Replies: 7
Views: 1904

Meetup.com RSVP rant

Anyone use meetup.com here? I use it. And I'm getting really tired of folks who RSVP Yes for events and then one or two days before the event change it to No. I am hosting an event and last week 20 people had RSVPed Yes (20 is the limit for folks coming on the hike) and 18 people were on the waiting...
by cdrdash
Thu Mar 12, 2015 9:03 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 195184

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Actually I hadn't seen the election since I rarely check the announcements. I won't be going for it. I wouldn't want to moderate two forums and I don't really have the time free. I may transfer to a new position at work and need my mental energy for that.

Cathy
by cdrdash
Mon Mar 09, 2015 1:17 pm
Forum: Feedback
Topic: How does one give and get thanks on this forum?
Replies: 5
Views: 2160

Re: How does one give and get thanks on this forum?

Finally found it ... "Thanks Post *" in a bar under the post. No idea why I didn't see it earlier. Will have to try it out soon and thank someone.
by cdrdash
Mon Mar 09, 2015 12:48 pm
Forum: Feedback
Topic: How does one give and get thanks on this forum?
Replies: 5
Views: 2160

How does one give and get thanks on this forum?

Other than being very polite and helpful :lol: I look under my lovely swinging self in my profile picture on posts and see this ... Given: 0 thanks Received: 0 thanks But I fail to see how people give and get thanks? Are my 54 year old eyes missing a little icon somewhere to "give thanks"?...
by cdrdash
Sun Mar 08, 2015 4:10 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Something to think about
Replies: 1
Views: 1025

Re: Something to think about

I must be real soft ... I have lived in Northern California for 28 years!!
by cdrdash
Sun Mar 08, 2015 3:47 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Photo Time
Replies: 2
Views: 1734

Photo Time

I went on a hike to Morgan Territory, west of Oakland, California, on Saturday. It was a solo hike and I loved it. I don't do solo hikes often just because its safer to have a buddy but every so often I'll take the risk of being solo. On Sunday, today, I went on a docent led hike at Coyote Ridge sou...
by cdrdash
Thu Mar 05, 2015 8:44 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Diversity and Inclusion...Love has no Labels
Replies: 3
Views: 1681

Re: Diversity and Inclusion...Love has no Labels

Cool. I enjoyed that. Thanks for the link!
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 03, 2015 5:24 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: So how does asexuality affect your daily life?
Replies: 8
Views: 3765

Re: So how does asexuality affect your daily life?

Asexuality doesn't affect my daily life at work hardly ever. But it does come up on occasion in my social life in the lesbian community. This weekend, there was a discussion about lesbian dating that I was listening to and although I didn't mention my asexuality it made me a more silent listener in ...
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 03, 2015 2:17 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Where is your shag point?
Replies: 6
Views: 2484

Re: Where is your shag point?

I only have one lonely experience to talk about and I'm not sure it fits in with what you ask above. I did not come to identify as asexual till the middle of my last relationship with a sexual woman. We shagged before I realized (confirmed?) my asexuality. I had hoped that sex would come naturally o...
by cdrdash
Tue Mar 03, 2015 1:36 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...
Replies: 6
Views: 1760

Re: Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...

I'm back from Death Valley. PiF, hope you are not too covered with mouse poop. Tan, hope the dinner was fun! Ciri, how was the visit with your grandparents? I had a mixed bag experience on my camping trip. Hiking in Death Valley was awesome and fun but I didn't so much enjoy the camping part. I slep...
by cdrdash
Thu Feb 26, 2015 5:27 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...
Replies: 6
Views: 1760

Re: Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...

Excellent that you get to visit your grandpop. My grandparents passed away long ago. I tried fishing once. I thought it was a great excuse to sit by a river and meditate about things but I didn't catch any fish. What kind of fishing did/do you do? Funny that it was your grandpop that didn't care if ...
by cdrdash
Thu Feb 26, 2015 1:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Marriage
Replies: 9
Views: 3732

Re: Marriage

I have an ex domestic partner. We were as legally married as we could be at the time. They were not allowing gay folks to marry yet when we were together in 2005 so we became domestic partners in the state of California. But alas in 2008, we started "divorce" proceedings. It was legally ca...
by cdrdash
Thu Feb 26, 2015 1:00 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...
Replies: 6
Views: 1760

Feb 28-Mar 1 ... Weekend plans ...

What are you doing this weekend? Even if it has diddly squat to do with asexuality, I love to hear what other fellow asexuals are doing on their weekends and I love to talk about what I am going to do! I'm off to Death Valley this weekend for camping and hiking. I had hoped to hike to the top of Mt ...