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by KAGU143
Sat Nov 11, 2017 10:42 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Heyoooo
Replies: 4
Views: 237

Re: Heyoooo

You and me both. :( We never ask for donations to keep Apositive running because that isn't the way that we want to run the site, but . . . I'm wondering if it's worth the cost any more. In my weirder moments I have considered changing it to Animal-positive and trying to somehow incorporate pets and...
by KAGU143
Thu Nov 09, 2017 6:10 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Heyoooo
Replies: 4
Views: 237

Re: Heyoooo

Hi there, L! Welcome to Apositive. It's good to see new members here, and you are totally welcome to stay, ask questions, post comments or anything else that you can think of! The only problem, besides this site being VERY slow, is that most of our members are well into adulthood and I don't know if...
by KAGU143
Thu Oct 26, 2017 12:52 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope
Replies: 4
Views: 181

Re: Hey guys I'm back again and trying to stop myself from being a misanthrope

Awwww . . . don't give up! I agree, the ace scene has morphed into something that I can't even recognize, (and wouldn't want to be affiliated with) but I suspect that much of that is due to society's gradual shift toward more and more reliance on smart phones and "arms length" relationship...
by KAGU143
Thu Oct 26, 2017 12:44 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: questions.
Replies: 5
Views: 280

Re: questions.

LOL!
I never thought about it that way . . .
by KAGU143
Thu Oct 26, 2017 12:42 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 8
Views: 543

Re: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

I confess, Karl was the one who figured out how to do it. Something about the site got very glitchy and it wouldn't let anybody join. While he was figuring that out he also put Abby where she belongs.
Karl saved us again!
by KAGU143
Tue Oct 17, 2017 5:57 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: questions.
Replies: 5
Views: 280

Re: questions.

Your sexual orientation is determined by what gender you would prefer to have sex with if there were no other factors influencing your decision, like family or peer pressure, etc. If the sex you prefer is the same as your own then you are homosexual but if you are attracted to the opposite sex then ...
by KAGU143
Tue Oct 17, 2017 5:50 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Allow Me To Introduce Myself
Replies: 4
Views: 232

Re: Allow Me To Introduce Myself

Hi Henry! Like Karl said, you have already come a long way - especially at such a young age. Congratulations! Personally, I've never been quite sure whether to categorize myself as aromantic or not. I don't like the idea of what I refer to as "glandular love" (the hormone-driven kind) beca...
by KAGU143
Sun Sep 24, 2017 8:00 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: 1 question..
Replies: 2
Views: 233

Re: 1 question..

Exactly what Karl said.
by KAGU143
Fri Sep 22, 2017 6:41 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Need help
Replies: 1
Views: 107

Re: Need help

Salari, Sex is supposed to be about intimacy, which is more than just close physical contact. It's about complete trust and acceptance of the other person, faults and all, and a willingness to be completely open and vulnerable to them in return. So, as far as sexual fantasies go, I have heard it bot...
by KAGU143
Tue Sep 19, 2017 11:13 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Apositive Upgrade Now Completed
Replies: 2
Views: 314

Apositive Upgrade Now Completed

This is to let our members know that, at some point in the next few days, Apositive will probably be offline for several hours - maybe as long as a day or two.

'Still trying to correct the problem that is preventing new accounts from being able to register. Please bear with us!
by KAGU143
Tue Sep 12, 2017 7:13 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Sanctuary
Replies: 3
Views: 368

Re: Sanctuary

Welcome to Apositive, Calu! Apos has been pretty slow lately, but hopefully not dead. Politics seem to be happening all over the place, and they aren't a banned topic here so ya never know, but so far they haven't taken over. SO sorry about the difficulties in getting your account to work correctly,...
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 12, 2017 8:16 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 206453

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Mind reading?? What the hell are they on about now?
by KAGU143
Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:45 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Heads Up
Replies: 4
Views: 501

Re: Heads Up

Good grief.
That's a lot of negativity to process. I hope Lord Grep gets things sorted out and realizes that you've moved on - and that he should do the same.
by KAGU143
Fri Jul 07, 2017 6:56 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Heads Up
Replies: 4
Views: 501

Re: Heads Up

Ciri, if you know who they are and you don't feel safe about naming them, PM me with whatever info you have and I'll see if there's anything I can do.
(Probably not, but ya never know, and at least I will know to be watchful.)
by KAGU143
Wed Jul 05, 2017 7:45 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 8
Views: 543

Re: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

Awww . . . don't you think she's cute?
Look at her pretty purple eyes! :D
by KAGU143
Wed Jul 05, 2017 7:39 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..
Replies: 9
Views: 2481

Re: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..

Of course you count!
(And you won't even have to wear a diaper . . . unless you want to, of course. :P )
by KAGU143
Fri Jun 23, 2017 6:37 am
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Make a Discord server or something?
Replies: 2
Views: 787

Re: Make a Discord server or something?

We've talked about installing a chat application several times and it keeps coming back to the same problem: moderation. I'm not automatically against the idea, in fact I think it could be valuable, but it would have to happen after the site is more active. Apos isn't as strictly moderated as AVEN a...
by KAGU143
Fri Jun 23, 2017 6:25 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 8
Views: 543

Re: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

Meh . . . Apos has been around for quite a few years. We're not ready to give up just yet, but if it turns out that there's no demand for a website about asexuality which is primarily geared toward responsible adults, then so be it. We can always archive the database and turn off the lights. I don't...
by KAGU143
Thu Jun 22, 2017 8:16 pm
Forum: Feedback
Topic: Whoa quiet here....
Replies: 15
Views: 1289

Re: Whoa quiet here....

Hmmm. Verrry interesting. I wonder if Abby will still be recognizable if I shrink her down to barely bigger than a real bee? I think I'll have to do that in order to make her fit but she has very clean lines and it might be okay. Now I have something to play with, but I won't tackle it until late mo...
by KAGU143
Thu Jun 22, 2017 4:39 pm
Forum: Feedback
Topic: Whoa quiet here....
Replies: 15
Views: 1289

Re: Whoa quiet here....

I had nothing to do with making the current header so I've never tried to dig into that part of the ACP, although I think I might have found where it's located. I don't even know where the image file (files?) that it's currently using are stored, though. I don't know if Karl has them someplace or if...
by KAGU143
Wed Jun 21, 2017 10:11 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: Whoa quiet here....
Replies: 15
Views: 1289

Re: Whoa quiet here....

I looked at it and . . . I have no idea? What's a coding system? Ask me something about biology, genetics or maybe even art theory, but no math or computer science, please. I'm genuinely dedicated to the cause of promoting asexuality awareness, but the only reason I still have this admin job is beca...
by KAGU143
Sat Jun 10, 2017 9:00 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby
Replies: 8
Views: 543

Meet our Apositive mascot, tentatively named Abby

Roughly 6 months ago, around the beginning of 2017, CatBunny offered to design a mascot for Apositive. She had a bunch of great ideas and we finally settled on the idea of a stylized honey bee because they are almost all asexual and yet they are intensely devoted to their peers, productive, valuable...
by KAGU143
Sat Jun 10, 2017 8:40 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: Whoa quiet here....
Replies: 15
Views: 1289

Re: Whoa quiet here....

It's good to see all of you guys! I miss the days when Apos used to be livelier. It's discouraging to come here just to see a digital ghost town - and then, to add insult to injury, the site keeps partially logging me out so I can't see new posts. Thanks to Catbunny's amazing talent, we now have our...
by KAGU143
Wed Mar 15, 2017 2:07 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Disability and asexual ?
Replies: 15
Views: 3419

Re: Disability and asexual ?

You won't get any argument from me, and certainly no pitchforks. I have long maintained that there are at least two kinds of asexuality, although I termed the acquired kind "functional" asexuality. Those posts are around here someplace, but they're a few years old. In any case, functional ...
by KAGU143
Thu Mar 09, 2017 9:45 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Disability and asexual ?
Replies: 15
Views: 3419

Re: Disability and asexual ?

I admit that I'm puzzled by the idea of being "ace in practice"? That sounds more like voluntary celibacy, although I might be reading it wrong. I can definitely understand how physical disabilities and chronic depression can play havoc with a person's feelings of self-worth, and that can ...
by KAGU143
Sat Mar 04, 2017 6:10 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5696

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

I thought that a fruit was the seed-bearing part of the plant, and a vegetable was anything else (leaves, stem, roots, etc.) Don't get me started on the various types of fruit, though. (Berries? Drupes? Droopy berries? HellifIknow!) Besides, I could be wrong about everything. Ya never know. I apprec...
by KAGU143
Fri Mar 03, 2017 5:21 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5696

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

Harvests the specially grown squash x lychee hybrids (squeechees) and floats them across the field on a river of wine.
(That was a LOT of grapes!)
by KAGU143
Thu Mar 02, 2017 10:13 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5696

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

Oh NO!
*frantically tries to sort the grapes by color as they approach* (damned OCD!)

*lobs a trebuchet load of Kiwi fruits while gathering up the grapes to make wine*
by KAGU143
Wed Mar 01, 2017 8:52 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5696

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

Ha! Bananas are too bendy to fly straight . . . I hope. *hides inside a giant pumpkin until the barrage stops*

*Rolls a box full of wood apples across the road*
by KAGU143
Tue Feb 28, 2017 3:48 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 60
Views: 5696

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

Wha . . . what?? I didn't see anything about that in the rules. Besides, the cloves are mostly a guide to help with assembly. But - beware! My durians have finally arrived, slightly flattened in transit, but mostly okay. *carefully rolls the best-looking, roundest durians over the row of be-clovened...