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by KAGU143
19 Feb 2017, 03:38
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Fruit Wars Return!
Replies: 43
Views: 2719

Re: Fruit Wars Return!

I can't wait!
As an American, I really look forward to smashing a wide variety of orange things.
by KAGU143
19 Feb 2017, 03:35
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 2
Views: 45

Re: Hello!

Sorry to hear that you ran afoul of their rules. Apparently, based on what some of our members have said, it's a very easy thing to do. Things have been quiet around here lately, but we're not dead - honest! :D Welcome to Apositive! Feel free to post your video. The rules here are pretty lenient sin...
by KAGU143
21 Jan 2017, 15:58
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 2560

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

Sure! I think it would be fun to see what ideas you come up with.

(And Thank You! I REALLY appreciate this. You can't imagine what a lift it is to finally have something interesting happening on the site.)
by KAGU143
20 Jan 2017, 14:47
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 2560

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

True. I was thinking that the stripes might be something useful to play with. Also, it would be easy to make their wings into a stylized letter A. Or heck . .. the whole little bee could almost look like an A. I was never good at that type of art. I can almost visualize it sometimes but I can never ...
by KAGU143
20 Jan 2017, 04:13
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 2560

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

Hahaha! I think I needed a good pun this morning. ('Cuz I'm trying not to think about national events. *sigh*) I always think of the whiptail lizards, too, when I consider asexual animals, but I wonder if maybe they're the wrong kind of asexual? The thing I like about honeybees (the workers) is that...
by KAGU143
19 Jan 2017, 07:15
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!
Replies: 12
Views: 2560

Re: Asexual Visibility, Apositive style - We get wild ideas!

Hmmmmm . . . thanks for bringing back this thread, Cat. I wonder, is the asexual community ready to truly support a more grown-up alternative to AVEN, or are they content to hang around on the playground with the kids who are still trying on (or inventing) a new sexual identity every few months as t...
by KAGU143
29 Dec 2016, 05:34
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: qu'est-ce que c'est?
Replies: 2
Views: 193

Re: qu'est-ce que c'est?

How do you see any political basis for the current definition of asexuality?

By that, I mean: "An asexual person is a person who does not experience sexual attraction."
by KAGU143
29 Dec 2016, 05:30
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: award-winning commercials
Replies: 1
Views: 118

Re: award-winning commercials

Interesting concept, and a very good idea for a commercial. I guess it could have happened in real life, although I thought that people who were on the waiting list for transplants would tend to be in frail health, and not suited to standing with crowds of people - some of whom would probably have c...
by KAGU143
29 Dec 2016, 05:24
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: do you still...
Replies: 2
Views: 150

Re: do you still...

The way I see it, a good act is still a good act regardless of what motivates it.
I don't have to trust the person who does it, but I'll give them some credit for choosing to do something helpful, even if they only do it to promote themselves. After all, they have plenty of non-helpful alternatives.
by KAGU143
24 Dec 2016, 05:47
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: happy holidays
Replies: 3
Views: 115

Re: happy holidays

Same to you, Michael! :D

I would also like to extend my wishes to all of our members:

Happy Holidays everybody!
May the rest of 2016 be as enjoyable as possible, and may all of your surprises in 2017 be pleasant ones!
by KAGU143
18 Dec 2016, 06:00
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: a genuine hero
Replies: 2
Views: 152

Re: a genuine hero

Strange, but I don't think I have ever heard about this.
'63 would have been before I was old enough to pay attention to news stories, and I guess it just didn't register when he received his additional medals.

It sounds like we've lost one of the good guys.
by KAGU143
15 Dec 2016, 16:30
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: your view of the irresolvable
Replies: 5
Views: 199

Re: your view of the irresolvable

I don't really identify with any sort of religion, although I think that Humanist probably comes closest to expressing what I believe. Not quite perfect, but close. I use "critter" as a form of endearment because I do genuinely like animals, including their human counterparts, especially i...
by KAGU143
15 Dec 2016, 15:30
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Identifying my aromance and asexuality
Replies: 5
Views: 375

Re: Identifying my aromance and asexuality

I miss the little "thanks" buttons that we had on the previous software.

So . . . consider your post "thanked" :D
by KAGU143
15 Dec 2016, 15:28
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1052

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

I really have a hard time equating a desire for frequent nudity with any aspect of asexuality, because I don't see asexuality as being related to a poor body image. They seem like two completely unrelated subjects to me. They don't exclude each other; they just don't seem to overlap very much. Now, ...
by KAGU143
15 Dec 2016, 15:18
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: creating GAVEN to replace AVEN
Replies: 4
Views: 239

Re: creating GAVEN to replace AVEN

Interesting ideas, MichaelS. It's been quite a while since Apos had anybody behind the wheel other than me, but there have been a few other admods from time to time in the past. Like you said, with the site being as slow as it is nowadays, there isn't really a need for more than one person right now...
by KAGU143
15 Dec 2016, 06:26
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: your view of the irresolvable
Replies: 5
Views: 199

Re: your view of the irresolvable

My solution is to accept the fact that we are all equally flawed, and to not expect other people to behave any better than I do. In other words, they are forgiven in advance and I don't assume that they are being intentionally deceitful - only that they are trying to optimize their own chance of sur...
by KAGU143
13 Dec 2016, 17:10
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1052

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

I don't think I would see any problem with it at all as long as it stayed in the privacy of a person's home. I'm not sure if it would help body image issues or not, but it probably wouldn't hurt.
by KAGU143
13 Dec 2016, 17:05
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?
Replies: 3
Views: 175

Re: So have I been bullshitting my sexuality all these years?

I would say that it's not worth the worry, but then you might feel otherwise. The main thing (to me) would be to make sure that there aren't any potential health issues associated with it, and if there are then to beware of them and take preventative measures if possible. As for whether or not you'r...
by KAGU143
12 Dec 2016, 15:22
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is anybody out there?
Replies: 8
Views: 692

Re: Is anybody out there?

There are hundreds of very well thought-out and articulate posts here, as well as some great info about the early history of the asexuality movement (such as it is) I would hate to see any of it disappear. Kæth still seems willing to keep us online, so it looks like we'll be around for at least anot...
by KAGU143
11 Dec 2016, 07:59
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..
Replies: 5
Views: 356

Re: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..

Now serving both punch AND ducks! (An assortment of alcoholic products are available on the side, so feel free to supplement the punch with your favorite. This is a grown up forum, after all. :) ) What?!? You don't like ducks?!?? I can put diapers on them if that would help, but then they act so emb...
by KAGU143
10 Dec 2016, 04:57
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..
Replies: 5
Views: 356

Re: Greetings... AVEN took my soul so..

Hi, m'Lord Grep, and welcome to Apositive. :) A rationalist, Atheist, skeptic and egalitarian? You will fit right in! And cranky opinions are always welcome - just try to focus any disparaging comments on the topic, not the other posters, and you will be fine. I even allow profanity (although I'm no...
by KAGU143
10 Dec 2016, 04:43
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is the term POC racist?
Replies: 6
Views: 528

Re: Is the term POC racist?

OH crap, am I going to get in to trouble on post number two? No worries. :) You would have to do something pretty horrific to get in trouble here at Apositive. Worst case - I will edit posts that cross the line and then PM the member to explain what I did and why. I ban spammers, not members.
by KAGU143
05 Dec 2016, 16:44
Forum: Introductions
Topic: A bit late but still trying
Replies: 2
Views: 404

Re: A bit late but still trying

Hi Dewlee! Welcome to Apositive. :) It has definitely been uber-slow around here, but our little forum is not quite completely dead yet. (The body still twitches once in a while.) Your English is fine, so you don't need to worry about that. I'm not 100% gender-normal myself, but it took me most of m...
by KAGU143
29 Nov 2016, 05:19
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is anybody out there?
Replies: 8
Views: 692

Re: Is anybody out there?

It's good to see you around, Tan! The way I see it, this thread is now a week old and has had a grand total of 3 responses. There has been no other input on any of the other sub-forums. Even Kæth, who was going to start a blog about asexuality, has lost interest - and not just in Apositive, but even...
by KAGU143
25 Nov 2016, 14:46
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is anybody out there?
Replies: 8
Views: 692

Re: Is anybody out there?

EEEEP! [[[[[[Ciri]]]]]]] Many, many hugs! May your demons be banished both soon and forever. Seriously! 'Need some demon kicking boots? I've got 'em! And, Michael. All I can say is a HUGE thank you! I missed you around these parts for a long time, and I'm glad to see you posting once again, even if ...
by KAGU143
22 Nov 2016, 15:36
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is anybody out there?
Replies: 8
Views: 692

Is anybody out there?

It seems to me like everybody has left Apos and gone away to do more interesting things or to hang out at more interesting places.

It's getting close to the time of year when we have to pay the rent to keep the lights on, and I'm wondering . . . .

should we even bother?
by KAGU143
19 Nov 2016, 05:53
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: What's in your fridge ?
Replies: 10
Views: 1506

Re: What's in your fridge ?

Much the same, but minus the beer.
by KAGU143
22 Oct 2016, 16:08
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 1052

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

I have no idea? There was a time, back in the 70s, when I was very uninhibited about being nude or being around other nude people. I was young, though, and it didn't take very long for me to figure out that my indifference to nudity wasn't shared by my friends, all of whom were sexuals. For them, it...
by KAGU143
17 Oct 2016, 16:00
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.
Replies: 7
Views: 1162

Re: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.

It is perfectly possible that you could be asexual, and asexuals are interesting because statistically they are much more likely to be attracted to people based purely on their character or interests, etc, rather than their sex, and that attraction is not sexual in nature. It can be intellectual or ...
by KAGU143
09 Oct 2016, 06:53
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.
Replies: 7
Views: 1162

Re: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.

That makes sense on a lot of levels.
Here's a thought: Have you ever tried to make your own image match the image that you find compelling? I mean, with the clothes and facial hair and etc?
If you did, what do you think would happen? Or if you have, what happened?

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