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by Lady Girl
Fri Mar 18, 2016 4:04 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

The words former, resigns, and leaving in this clause are key. While still on the team, admins can step into an open mod spot, just as mods can shuffle into another forum. However, if they resign or leave the team then obviously they can't do that. The clause is to explain that you have to wait one ...
by Lady Girl
Thu Mar 17, 2016 8:59 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I had no skills whatsoever when I was elected. I did a little research online to answer some questions, but really I had nothing. It was probably six months or more before I felt somewhat comfortable with the job. Anyway, I've decided not to try to tell you all my thoughts on this particular point. ...
by Lady Girl
Thu Mar 17, 2016 7:34 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I didnt mean the PT isn't experienced. I feel their positions require a certain skill set to begin with.
by Lady Girl
Thu Mar 17, 2016 6:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Yes, as I mentioned, the first page of the declassified threads will have more current dates with what seems like gaps following...due to early declassification requests. We also have to search to find threads; they certainly aren't committed to memory. If you go from the last index page forward, yo...
by Lady Girl
Wed Mar 16, 2016 8:11 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Pif, you said only the admods know the dates the threads were made, but the date is on the thread (for everyone to see)...both on the first post and in the thread title on the index page. It starts from 2003 and is moving forward. There are no chunks of threads being excluded because they weren't be...
by Lady Girl
Wed Mar 16, 2016 8:02 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They are being declassified from oldest to newest (with the exception of requests). This has been clarified in announcements about the declassification team and I believe on this board as well. The date of the thread is on it. The history that is being maintained is the order in which they appear in...
by Lady Girl
Wed Mar 16, 2016 6:26 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They aren't being hidden. They appear via their original date of occurrence...therefore preserving the actual history and relevant order in which they happened. I thought above that you made it sound like not all the proofread threads had actually been released. I just wanted to clarify that they ha...
by Lady Girl
Tue Mar 15, 2016 7:45 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

The 49 threads that have been proofread have been posted. They would not appear on the first page due to those being newer (and declassified early...mostly upon request).
by Lady Girl
Fri Feb 19, 2016 8:40 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I don't think AVEN is refusing to release the census...it just hasn't been released yet. I don't know the reason, but I'm sure it will make its appearance. Actually, when it comes to discussions, it tends to be rather evenly balanced and a lot of people who think about it after having cast a ballot ...
by Lady Girl
Thu Feb 18, 2016 8:44 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I'm doing well, thanks PiF! I agree with Howard, people know celibacy means a person isn't having sex (for months, years, whatever...it never means a couple hours). My point is that celibacy is not ever defined by not wanting or desiring sex...it's defined by not having sex. People who are celibate ...
by Lady Girl
Wed Feb 17, 2016 5:11 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Plenty of people who are celibate do indeed want or desire sex. Not wanting and not desiring sex is not a valid definition of celibacy. A person who is not having sex is a celibate person. I agree with most people that sexual attraction means desiring sex with the person for which you feel that kind...
by Lady Girl
Thu Dec 24, 2015 9:09 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: I think I hear crickets?
Replies: 26
Views: 4292

Re: I think I hear crickets?

Crickets you say? :)

I'm really looking forward to a day at home tomorrow. Happy Holidays Apositive!!!
by Lady Girl
Mon Sep 21, 2015 10:00 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: The vicious assault that's taking over my life
Replies: 17
Views: 3440

Re: The vicious assault that's taking over my life

I'm really sorry. I hardly know what to say either. I'm so glad you made it through and I hope you and your wife are able to start doing things again eventually...I'm glad there is some help right now. I can only imagine how you must feel. I barely know what it's like to be assaulted...I was mugged ...
by Lady Girl
Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:13 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

SpanishDuchess wrote:
Ciri wrote:Subhuman.

Is.

Not.

A.

Team member.

How does this person know that LadyGirl voted no?


They don't. They said "for all we know" which means we don't know.
by Lady Girl
Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:08 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

it's a team decision, for all we know Lady personally voted no for it It's obvious that you are a member of the team. The Admods should take disciplinary actions against you for breaking the confidentiality clause. They didn't break any confidentiality...they said "for all we know", meani...
by Lady Girl
Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:06 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I'm on a break at work and thought I would catch up on a little reading here. Since I've been mentioned again now, just to clarify, the team makes the decisions and whichever admin is available to send warnings that include suspensions or a ban do so (they are sent via PM and email and signed the Ad...
by Lady Girl
Sat Sep 05, 2015 8:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Just for clarification, the quote of mine is not considered a disciplinary action. It was an in thread post and a reminder to everyone that if a post is removed, it's not okay to post it elsewhere. That's standard. As for vigilante modding...the ToS, in the clause regarding it, does suggest using th...
by Lady Girl
Thu Sep 03, 2015 10:25 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Thanks Tan. <3 I see that point. I just wanted to put it out there that power isn't the reason I do it (I don't think that's what it meant to you either). I feel that there's a conspiracy/power/fear theme that sometimes detracts from talking about some of the issues some people have with the admods.
by Lady Girl
Thu Sep 03, 2015 9:17 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Cali...I didn't say there weren't any problems. I said I'm not part of a conspiracy because I don't have the time (or the inclination). And, there isn't one...at least to my knowledge. PiF...I didn't mean the site was a place for some to vent, I meant this thread (and a couple others)...hence part o...
by Lady Girl
Thu Sep 03, 2015 9:12 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

And I've found this info on Lady Girl's profile: Last visited: 03 Sep 2015, 09:38 I visit the site pretty regularly. I mostly check for messages and read a couple threads. I don't necessarily feel I need to "defend" myself. I don't see this as a trial, but rather, a place for some to vent...
by Lady Girl
Tue May 26, 2015 10:14 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: An apology to Avens back room..sort of...declass
Replies: 14
Views: 3039

Re: An apology to Avens back room..sort of...declass

I'm sorry you still feel the team doesn't communicate with the members. In regards to declass though, it was announced (in Announcements) when they started back up again...http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/95663-admod-declassifications/?hl=declassifications I just searched "declassifications&q...
by Lady Girl
Fri May 22, 2015 8:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

This is difficult for me LG as you know I have great respect for you but there was always going to be an occasion where you may find it uncomfortable when some, comment on the teams failings I typically don't post as I did, but being part of the team kind of means when you say the team it means me ...
by Lady Girl
Thu May 21, 2015 10:00 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I typically don't post as I did, but being part of the team kind of means when you say the team it means me too (I know individuals shouldn't be named, but neither should the group). I guess I don't see admods as being so bad as is being implied (that's not to say there aren't problems at times). I ...
by Lady Girl
Wed May 20, 2015 8:29 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

why is it so hard for the team to be informative? Why do they look down on the members so much that they feel the members should not receive informative updates We don't look down on members :( Otherwise the team has learnt nothing from recent events and have gone back to the arrogant ways of..We h...
by Lady Girl
Tue May 19, 2015 8:10 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2345
Views: 205613

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I see the last two tos updates have gone back to the old ways of just saying "Change" and not telling what it has changed from and too...that is how they lost so many updates before...still they refuse to learn or understand. Not really...Bot clause was simply added (it wasn't there befor...
by Lady Girl
Wed Apr 08, 2015 9:25 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Favourite music videos/songs
Replies: 115
Views: 18663

Re: Favourite music videos/songs

Frightened Rabbit...Swim Until You Can't See Land

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzjERZU3wbY

Concrete Blonde...Joey

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdpTcvSn8HQ
by Lady Girl
Sat Apr 04, 2015 8:48 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Am I Asexual?
Replies: 5
Views: 3972

Re: Am I Asexual?

The other thing about this is that many asexuals do (and of course can) experience some or many of those items on that list. It doesn't make them asexual, but it could very well be an aspect of their asexuality...and in a forum type situation, they might be likely to talk about it (especially if sev...
by Lady Girl
Sat Mar 28, 2015 8:29 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Aven and my PiF bannings
Replies: 160
Views: 35742

Re: Aven and my PiF bannings

Just as a response to the "ToS updated" posts...they are very much specific now. I gave the dates of the handful that were simple like that, but if you look at the ToS thread (I want to say from 2012 forward), they all specify what is being updated.
by Lady Girl
Wed Mar 25, 2015 7:35 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Happy Birthday cdrDash
Replies: 14
Views: 3703

Re: Happy Birthday cdrDash

I hope you had a nice birthday cdr!

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by Lady Girl
Thu Mar 12, 2015 7:46 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Aven and my PiF bannings
Replies: 160
Views: 35742

Re: Aven and my PiF bannings

Thanks for providing the links Michael...I was going to do that, but was really tired when I posted last night. Narnia, I wasn't trying to make a clever reply, I sincerely wanted to see if there was an explanation for this that can be viewed by anyone, even a non member, and those were the threads I...