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by fridayoak
Mon Sep 27, 2010 4:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Poly
Replies: 51
Views: 33907

Re: Poly

Ahaha, well if I do then I promise to put you at the front :D
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 27, 2010 8:35 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Low sexual desire is not a disease. Stop FDA approval of Fli
Replies: 31
Views: 21577

Re: Low sexual desire is not a disease. Stop FDA approval of Fli

I remember this from AVEN, and I agree that I couldn't see what all the fuss was about. If people want the drugs then let them have them (as long as they're safe of course). I think it's really arrogant for asexuals to see "WE don't want that, WE think this and that" cos people can make up...
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 27, 2010 8:25 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Poly
Replies: 51
Views: 33907

Re: Poly

Hmmm I'm not sure at all now about my polyness. I mean I think maybe it's just something I was contemplating when I was single and thinking about something different that might improve my life rather than a realistic alternative. Perhaps it's just easy to look back at past relationships and think &q...
by fridayoak
Sun Sep 26, 2010 2:08 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Bonzer
Replies: 9
Views: 3031

Re: Bonzer

As long as you don't spam this site with pinecone porn pics then you'll be just fine.
by fridayoak
Fri Sep 24, 2010 3:34 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Just dropped in from outer space
Replies: 7
Views: 2280

Re: Just dropped in from outer space

Ok I think I get you, in terms of more acceptance and understanding of those outside the norm and stuff. I suppose I forget sometimes how intolerant most in society are cos I pretty much live in my little bubble nowadays, so yeah I agree. The stuff I was more interested in (and I'm still not entirel...
by fridayoak
Fri Sep 24, 2010 3:25 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Just dropped in from outer space
Replies: 7
Views: 2280

Re: Just dropped in from outer space

Welcome to Apositive Pooh Bear. I must say that I am a little confused what point you are trying to make though? Are you saying, for example, that more emphasis needs to be made towards understanding (and maybe re- abelling) people who may be phyically attracted to one gender and emotionally attract...
by fridayoak
Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:02 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Did I miss anything?
Replies: 17
Views: 5055

Re: Did I miss anything?

I do recall back on the old boards actually deleting a member messed up the indexes of every thread in which they had posted. I do not know if this problem persists in the newest board software. Yes you're right, I just read (a post by Kelly on AVEN) that it messed up threads on the old software bu...
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 20, 2010 2:08 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Glad I found this
Replies: 4
Views: 1606

Re: Glad I found this

Welcome, and I'm glad you found this site and that it has been a help to you already.
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 20, 2010 2:05 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi, I've been lurking
Replies: 4
Views: 1702

Re: Hi, I've been lurking

Hi and welcome to Apositive!
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 20, 2010 2:04 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Just another Avenite .
Replies: 5
Views: 1623

Re: Just another Avenite .

Welcome to Apositive!
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 20, 2010 2:01 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Did I miss anything?
Replies: 17
Views: 5055

Re: Did I miss anything?

Why is there no function to be able to delte your own account on AVEN? I've heard some say it's to swell AVEN's membership numbers so they can wheel out the whole "23000" members spiel, what's the official reason? I'd much rather delete and make new accounts myself whenever I want rather t...
by fridayoak
Sat Sep 18, 2010 4:20 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Did I miss anything?
Replies: 17
Views: 5055

Re: Did I miss anything?

well it all kicked off on AVEN big-time when EGD got demodded and it was civil war on there for a few days. Was thinking you knew and were gonna post about it but that was some time last week so guess you didn't know... Apart from that, dunno. Not that much happens on here but a lot of people seem t...
by fridayoak
Fri Sep 17, 2010 5:03 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?
Replies: 52
Views: 22518

Re: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?

"Tranny" is a pretty light-hearted phrase here in the UK at least. Like you hear it on tv on lot, and it's used self-deprecatingly (maybe as a way of changing it's meaning, I'm not sure if it was originally used as an insult). Come to think of it you don't hear much about discrimination to...
by fridayoak
Fri Sep 10, 2010 12:34 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?
Replies: 25
Views: 6936

Re: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?

Anyway flergalwit, for some reason I wanna have a punt on you being P's bird? I'll put a tenner on but I'd want odds of at least 4-1. if that's the case, P would be extremely interested to find out. however, P very much doubts it. (oh, but welcome, flergalwit, whoever you are.) Oh no I was well-off...
by fridayoak
Fri Sep 10, 2010 12:32 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Capt Fuzzy Bum aka Discobison
Replies: 9
Views: 2493

Re: Capt Fuzzy Bum aka Discobison

Hello there hairy-arsed-man-beast, welcome to Apositive!
by fridayoak
Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:39 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?
Replies: 52
Views: 22518

Re: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?

hip then, well, continuing it may be possible but it could well be pretty hard. (Though as a side issue, if by 'used to be a man' you are talking about someone who has undergone SRS, then if my understanding is correct such people are considered both gender-female *and* bio-female, post-transition ...
by fridayoak
Wed Sep 08, 2010 2:49 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?
Replies: 52
Views: 22518

Re: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?

So if you met someone you assumed was biofem and fell for them romantically (e.g say you worked together or something and developed romantic feelings for) then you'd be able to turn off those feelings after they told you they used to be a man? What would change exactly? If the attraction is already ...
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 06, 2010 5:03 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?
Replies: 25
Views: 6936

Re: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?

*Then I actually did some research DOH! And I was gonna have such fun! "... And I've got a message to give to you. Here come the planes." ..They're American planes. Made in America" (I still haven't checked out her other albums yet so this serves as a timely reminder). edit- oh and w...
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 06, 2010 9:43 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?
Replies: 25
Views: 6936

Re: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?

I was about to say it might be Sammi, she'd love getting one over on me what with me winding her up so much on saturday. I better stop guessing before it completely consumes me. Before that I was gonna suggest Zanzibal but realised it couldn't be her cos something in the OP ruled her out. *Then I ac...
by fridayoak
Mon Sep 06, 2010 8:23 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?
Replies: 25
Views: 6936

Re: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?

Well I'm not currently on AVEN but like you say, you can never really leave that place, so no doubt I'll be back begging for my account to be re-activated in a few months...maybe. I was AVEN free for near three years before going back for a mere few weeks before leaving again. It ain't that hard. I...
by fridayoak
Sun Sep 05, 2010 5:01 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Might as well
Replies: 13
Views: 3422

Re: Might as well

(A belated) Welcome to Apositive Pugnacioun!
by fridayoak
Sun Sep 05, 2010 4:57 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?
Replies: 25
Views: 6936

Re: Are there actually any NON-avenites here!?

Well I'm not currently on AVEN but like you say, you can never really leave that place, so no doubt I'll be back begging for my account to be re-activated in a few months...maybe.

Anyway welcome to A-Positive whoever you are (I've no idea your name on AVEN and I'm too lazy to do any research).
by fridayoak
Thu Sep 02, 2010 7:20 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Thought i'd stagger over this way
Replies: 20
Views: 5915

Re: Thought i'd stagger over this way

From the pictures I saw it's like an all-in-one drinks cabinet/kitchen area with a sink type-thing. I've never seen that in someone's home over here but it seems a bit unnecessery cos surely it's not that hard to go to clean your glass at the regular kitchen sink. If I went round someone's house and...
by fridayoak
Wed Sep 01, 2010 6:36 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Thought i'd stagger over this way
Replies: 20
Views: 5915

Re: Thought i'd stagger over this way

I've never heard of the term "wet bar" either so guess it's American. From wiki; A wet bar can increase the rate at which drinks are served because of the sink, which allows for glasses to be cleaned immediately. No wonder we don't have them in the UK, we have no need for a sink to clean o...
by fridayoak
Mon Aug 30, 2010 8:45 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Zoids was here. Then gone ... and now he's back!
Replies: 19
Views: 6409

Re: Zoids was here. Then gone ... and now he's back!

Welcome CBC and Zoids, good to see you here.
by fridayoak
Sun Aug 29, 2010 2:09 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Aromantic Forum
Replies: 21
Views: 13645

Re: Aromantic Forum

It was quite clear that the "they" was referring to the aromantics who set up their own forum, how on earth can anyone take offence at that?
by fridayoak
Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:35 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Finally bit the bullet and joined.
Replies: 10
Views: 3955

Re: Finally bit the bullet and joined.

Hi Ally, good to see you over here.

There's no cake but I bought you some jellybeans (just don't eat them all in one sitting).
by fridayoak
Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:32 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Another AVENite
Replies: 10
Views: 3090

Re: Another AVENite

Ha, they're all shifting over here now hey? I better close my account and go back to AVEN! :P

I jest, good to see you here Tan.
by fridayoak
Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:25 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Pre-asexuality views on sex?
Replies: 38
Views: 23963

Re: Pre-asexuality views on sex?

A lot of my (male) friends were talking about having sex when I was 12 or 13, and I just found it bizarre that they were so interested. A few would talk about it non-stop and arrange it for others, it was weird. I guess I thought about sex out of intellectual intrigue back then quite a bit but by th...
by fridayoak
Tue Aug 24, 2010 6:36 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Poly
Replies: 51
Views: 33907

Re: Poly

the line between options 2 and 3 can be very blurry, like what Kagu143 is saying about the whole boundaries and what consitute cheating, it seems like such a minefield, something that I'm not sure I have the skills to negotiate. Ok, so analysing someone by a few paragraphs they wrote on the interne...