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by KAGU143
Thu Aug 12, 2010 3:57 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: The Creation of a Flag
Replies: 47
Views: 91265

Re: The Creation of a Flag

I agree that the people who pushed so hard to make it happen should be commended for their efforts and enthusiasm, even if the flag that they ended up with doesn't do much for me, personally. I remember "back in the day" in 2004, when I was still very new to AVEN and it was a much smaller ...
by KAGU143
Wed Aug 11, 2010 3:30 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: The Creation of a Flag
Replies: 47
Views: 91265

Re: The Creation of a Flag

Oh ... I dunno. *shrug* I talk about AVEN all of the time, here and elsewhere. I have quite a few complaints about the way things are done over there, and I'm not afraid to talk about them, but I think it's a lot like having complaints about my little brother back when he was still alive. No matter ...
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 10, 2010 1:10 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: The Creation of a Flag
Replies: 47
Views: 91265

Re: The Creation of a Flag

I can't seem to work up much interest in any of the proposed flag designs, but I took a page from Dargon's book and decided to go vote for the best of the bad.
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 10, 2010 1:04 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Sex and love
Replies: 12
Views: 6482

Re: Sex and love

LOL! Good point, Jicragg!

Well, I finally found that bigger hammer. It made me into a moderator as well as an admin, but I guess that's okay.
(I hope that having all of these amazing internetz powahs doesn't go to my head!)
*goes to erase the spambot post*
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 10, 2010 12:22 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Asexual discrimination (no, really)
Replies: 10
Views: 5853

Re: Asexual discrimination (no, really)

I guess that the nuances of my suggestion got lost, somehow. Obviously, people who would use autism as an insult are too small-minded to bother with. (IMO) They would be the same people who would insult others based on their race, height, or etc. People who might pity autistic people (even wrongly) ...
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 10, 2010 12:09 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Sex and love
Replies: 12
Views: 6482

Re: Sex and love

Yep. That's exactly what it was. I didn't delete it thoroughly enough so now we have an orphaned post from a banned member. *sigh*
I need to find a bigger hammer.
by KAGU143
Mon Aug 09, 2010 7:34 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Sex and love
Replies: 12
Views: 6482

Re: Sex and love

Sam 13 has left the building .....
by KAGU143
Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:58 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Repulsed asexuals
Replies: 31
Views: 13712

Re: Repulsed asexuals

Sometimes I think that things were a lot easier back when AVEN still had the four types system, A, B, C and D. Does anybody else remember it? It allowed all of the different types to be included as asexuals regardless of their differences and I think it kept the conflict to a minimum. Now, regarding...
by KAGU143
Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:48 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?
Replies: 52
Views: 22318

Re: Could you love/have a relationship with a mtf/ftm asexual?

I wanted to post a picture of a really pretty rooster here, with a caption, but I decided to spare you. LOL!
by KAGU143
Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Opposite Sex Friendship
Replies: 17
Views: 8388

Re: Opposite Sex Friendship

Just reading your post makes me want to go find this bothersome female person and give her a good ol' talkin' to. For starters. Geeze ...what a piece of work. *eye roll* I don't know if it's much consolation, but hormone-based infatuations, which is what it sounds like your friend is suffering from,...
by KAGU143
Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:22 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Thought i'd stagger over this way
Replies: 20
Views: 5881

Re: Thought i'd stagger over this way

Hi Ninny, and welcome to Apositive. Yes indeed! I have been trying to make a wet bar. This is what I have managed so far: http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y249/Greybird52/emoticons/Wetbar.jpg Help yourself! I think there is something for just about everybody. I am having some graphics-related comput...
by KAGU143
Wed Aug 04, 2010 10:26 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Repulsed asexuals
Replies: 31
Views: 13712

Re: Repulsed asexuals

Well, I don't know about AVEN's ban policy anymore. I often think it has drifted toward the extreme of being TOO intolerant of trigger words while allowing politely worded insults to slide by on technicalities. That's just my opinion, though. Meanwhile, 'still thinking about terminology ... How abou...
by KAGU143
Wed Aug 04, 2010 6:30 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: *tentatively waves*
Replies: 7
Views: 2073

Re: *tentatively waves*

HA! I got to you first :D
Welcome to Apositive, Pamcakes!

It's kinda quiet here compared to AVEN, but feel free to pull up a virtual chair anytime you are in the neighborhood. We can get some really interesting conversations going sometimes -- honest!!
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 03, 2010 9:39 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Asexual discrimination (no, really)
Replies: 10
Views: 5853

Re: Asexual discrimination (no, really)

Yeah, I agree with Dargon. If your friends are that dense, perhaps it might help to tell them that you think they would be better if they did more thinking with the brain above their belts.
At the very least, it should get some discussion started!
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 03, 2010 8:09 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: I am here.
Replies: 11
Views: 2476

Re: I am here.

Hehehe ... I am one of the people who gets very confused by constant name changes. GalileoAce is a name I grew familiar with and it was quite a while before I made the connection. I was like ... who is this Saeihr person?? Why do they need so many vowels in a row? Where did they come from? They seem...
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 03, 2010 7:57 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Asexual discrimination (no, really)
Replies: 10
Views: 5853

Re: Asexual discrimination (no, really)

It sounds like your friends don't really know you very well. Either that, or they don't like you as you are and want to "fix" you so that you will fit their stereotypical view of what makes an acceptable human being. If it's the latter ... well, I don't know what to say, other than I think...
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 03, 2010 7:20 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Sex and love
Replies: 12
Views: 6482

Re: Sex and love

I think Ghosts hit on part of what I would say. It is because some form of intimacy IS a requirement in close reationships. That much is a given, but the form that it takes can vary. I believe that sexuals often see sex as a way of expressing intimacy and love, whereas asexuals generally don't. Inti...
by KAGU143
Sun Aug 01, 2010 10:41 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: I am here.
Replies: 11
Views: 2476

Re: I am here.

Hey -- awesome seeing you over here, Kayleigh! I feel like I already know you since I've read so many of your posts over at AVEN, but welcome to Apositive nonetheless! We don't have cake here (yet) and I'm not sure I want to go in that direction since that is such an AVEN tradition, but I am current...
by KAGU143
Sun Aug 01, 2010 10:14 am
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Repulsed asexuals
Replies: 31
Views: 13712

Re: Repulsed asexuals

I really like the term, "detoxifying", Sciatrix. I wonder if we could start introducing it more widely over at AVEN? If the general membership at AVEN could gently tiptoe into those kinds of threads and offer a few words of sympathy and understanding while, at the same time, trying to keep...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 19, 2010 4:15 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New and trying to work out where I fit in.
Replies: 5
Views: 1475

Re: New and trying to work out where I fit in.

Welcome to Apositive, Crystal Queen. Your experiences would be familiar to quite a few of our members, I suspect, because a lot of asexuals are perfectly willing to have sex under some circumstances. It's less common for an asexual to initiate sex, but that can happen too, especially if they feel it...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:09 pm
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: The Creation of a Flag
Replies: 47
Views: 91265

Re: The Creation of a Flag

I took a look at that thread and I am thinking, as Scooby Do would say, ... Baroo?? (ie: WTF??) It is WAAYYY too rushed, and I agree with Dargon in that there seems to be very little thought behind it. NONE of the flag designs really appealed to me, although some were less odious than others. Dargon...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 05, 2010 7:47 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newy members introductionary thread
Replies: 3
Views: 1976

Re: Newy members introductionary thread

Welcome back, Roy! I think it takes a bit of effort to get a topic going here, but once it's started we can get pretty active. You missed our troll attack! It was fun while it lasted, but I think we finally argued him to death. Anyway, feel free to start a topic or add to anything that interests you...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 05, 2010 7:42 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: i thought it prudent to expand my base of operations....
Replies: 6
Views: 3042

Re: i thought it prudent to expand my base of operations....

Hello, P I've seen you over at 'the other place' too, since I have no shame about frequenting AVEN as well as here. Welcome to Apositive! It's a little quieter here and not quite so tightly moderated since the ... well, I call it the "playground metality" seems to be missing. 'Not sure why...
by KAGU143
Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:04 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Sexual repression?
Replies: 53
Views: 29410

Re: Sexual repression?

He was a pretty impressive troll, though, dontcha think? I was kinda sad to see him give up and leave.
by KAGU143
Wed Jun 30, 2010 11:15 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hey all
Replies: 6
Views: 1882

Re: Hey all

Hey, Mage! Welcome to Apositive! I think most of the members here have also been to AVEN, and a lot of us still hang out there quite a bit, but this place seems to attract a slightly older crowd. 'Not sure why, but maybe it's because a lot of asexuals tend to mellow out and become more tolerant over...
by KAGU143
Sun Jun 20, 2010 1:34 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Just for goofing off - how about some limericks?
Replies: 18
Views: 4877

Re: Just for goofing off - how about some limericks?

There's a rumor that I am from Mars
And I dream about Hollywood stars
Who are gorgeous and youthful,
But I say, "That's not truthful!
I only have eyes for their cars!"

Next:
While walking to school in the rain,
by KAGU143
Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:10 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Just for goofing off - how about some limericks?
Replies: 18
Views: 4877

Re: Just for goofing off - how about some limericks?

There will be a guy in Helsinki
Who goes by the nickname of Winky.
It's not what you think
Cuz he's not prone to blink;
It's the eyeball he wears on his pinky!

Next:
I try not to snuggle with ravens
by KAGU143
Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:13 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Who are you?
Replies: 94
Views: 27706

Re: Who are you?

Hey vrazda! I've seen your name over at AVEN. Welcome to Apositive! It's kinda quiet here compared to AVEN but we still enjoy our happy little corner of the interwebs. Feel free to contribute! Questions, comments, observations - you name it. It's all good. :) A fair number of people check by here on...
by KAGU143
Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:08 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Switching Over
Replies: 8
Views: 1921

Re: Switching Over

Howdy, Charis! Welcome to Apositive! It's kinda slow here compared to AVEN but we aren't totally paralyzed. (That rumor is a LIE, a LIE I tellz ya!) Feel free to chip in! Got questions? Comments? Opinions? Crazy observations? Ideas for games? All input is welcome, so pull up a virtual chair and join...
by KAGU143
Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:20 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Low sexual desire is not a disease. Stop FDA approval of Fli
Replies: 31
Views: 21378

Re: Low sexual desire is not a disease. Stop FDA approval of Fli

I haven't added anything to this thread because I already have a full plate and NO time to take on anything else, but I just wanted you all to know that I'm standing on the sidelines cheering you on! It sounds like a great idea, and well worth trying.