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by PiF
Wed May 25, 2016 6:04 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Is the term POC racist?
Replies: 10
Views: 3010

Is the term POC racist?

It seems to be more used in the U.S. thankfully than the U.K. and for those who do not know, the initials stand for Person of Colour. My feeling is that it is racist, or...it is used by idiots in a way that makes racist My reasoning why...unlike many of those who use this term, I have travelled beyo...
by PiF
Wed May 25, 2016 2:49 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]
Replies: 281
Views: 82249

Re: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]

More room for chocolate :D
by PiF
Mon May 23, 2016 11:33 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]
Replies: 281
Views: 82249

Re: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]

Huzzah, houston, we no longer have a problem :clap: :clap: :lol:
by PiF
Mon May 23, 2016 1:34 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]
Replies: 281
Views: 82249

Re: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]

It's back up again but has been floating in and out of being avaliable.
by PiF
Sun May 22, 2016 11:28 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is interracial dating the new form of slavery? TMI
Replies: 2
Views: 2510

Is interracial dating the new form of slavery? TMI

What if I was to say to you that interracial dating was wrong and races should not do it? What if I was to say to you that dating another race was stepping down and lowering standards? What if I was to say to you that people only interracially date for money or status or to improve their own credit ...
by PiF
Sun May 22, 2016 2:49 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Top tips for asexual flirting
Replies: 8
Views: 4071

Re: Top tips for asexual flirting

Where do yo cross the line...something asexuals have to be aware of in the same way gay's have to be careful of when flirting with the opposite sex I know I can flirt and have done but do so with no expectation of sex because it is not something I have a radar for, so where I as an asexual would nee...
by PiF
Sat May 21, 2016 2:26 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]
Replies: 281
Views: 82249

Re: Ciri's Shitty Blog [Dead]

If you can't fart that's when you know it's serious :D

Fingers crossed Rio was just nothing and life can be moved on, enjoy the pain relief :lol:
by PiF
Sat May 21, 2016 12:28 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Favourite music videos/songs
Replies: 115
Views: 26635

Re: Favourite music videos/songs

James Bay .... Let it Go ...... Lovely song :D

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsPq9mzFNGY
by PiF
Sat May 21, 2016 7:17 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?
Replies: 16
Views: 3761

Re: Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?

The democrats have very little to loose by a joint ticket but I doubt Hilary would be a good team player and would still insist on the top job. When she said very recently “We also have to keep our eye on Wall Street. We can’t ever let it wreck Main Street again,” ...she was rather quiet about decla...
by PiF
Sat May 21, 2016 4:54 am
Forum: Community & Public Visibility
Topic: Nonbinary awareness has spawned some weird stuff for binaries
Replies: 9
Views: 3280

Re: Nonbinary awareness has spawned some weird stuff for binaries

For me, the whole cis, non binary and pronoun nonsense was created by the trans community for the trans community to divide rather than bring together and their version of special snowflake it was like we as an incredibly small community have decided on a term and you out there MUST use it or your t...
by PiF
Fri May 20, 2016 1:31 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?
Replies: 16
Views: 3761

Re: Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?

A mixture of having a few friends in the states and my multiple visits my opinions are as follows Bernie would be the better president but I lost faith in him when I saw him with Al Sharpton...Al is like the black lives matter campaigners, their interests are in keeping the colours separate as well ...
by PiF
Fri May 20, 2016 8:52 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?
Replies: 16
Views: 3761

Donald, Bernie or Hilary ?

Discuss? :D
by PiF
Fri May 20, 2016 2:05 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

What is the difference between Hilary's emails and the aven 2015 census? ....Your more likely to see Hilary's emails :D
by PiF
Thu May 19, 2016 6:13 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

It would seem some in there are following dj's lead, they do not want to do anything themselves/be community involved or even be accountable...but they also do not want anyone else having a go either. honestly..who could find a situation were you have elected officials..that do not have to be accoun...
by PiF
Thu May 19, 2016 2:43 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They don't need to trial it, the trail has been going on for years, it is called the pt Ciri..as long as they don't attach it on your forehead, you'll be okay :D good luck Tan..I'm not so sure, it seems there is a clear momentum as people are seeing what is being asked for is perfectly reasonable an...
by PiF
Wed May 18, 2016 11:38 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I'm sure it is just a coincidence, probably brought on by such things as

Some mods want to wall aven in from the outside world?.... no sql's

someone running in a mod election we don't like and we can't sabotage them?..the site goes down for a week :lol:
by PiF
Wed May 18, 2016 1:54 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

when aven was started it was supposed to be not a safe place, there are none on the internet,,,but a place were genuine asexuals, their partners,family and friends could come to to see what asexuality was about it was supposed to be the first port of call for researchers and a real starting point fo...
by PiF
Wed May 18, 2016 2:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Confused about my Asexuality
Replies: 1
Views: 1261

Re: Confused about my Asexuality

Hi Onion and welcome I'll go through a few bits if I may and please remember this is just my opinion but hopefully others will chime in too I had often been told that as a virgin I didn't have right to say I didn't enjoy the idea of sex or want sex because I never had it. I always thought that was a...
by PiF
Wed May 18, 2016 1:47 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

:lol: you have a pm
by PiF
Tue May 17, 2016 7:32 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

They replaced it with the LFiU principle...I'll let you guess what that means :D As a team they have rather gotten themselves in a pickle and some have rather backed themselves into a corner. Some have no interest in aven other than a title or not wanting anyone else to have what they have , certian...
by PiF
Mon May 16, 2016 9:00 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

And this ladies and gentlemen, is how they silence their own rather than admit the shit ones have control http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/7979 ... cy-policy/
by PiF
Sat May 14, 2016 5:47 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Last 5 albums you bought?
Replies: 0
Views: 2040

Last 5 albums you bought?

Downloaded, streamed or actually from the real world. what were the last 5 albums you chose to own?

Sia....This is acting

Justin Bieber ..Purpose

David Bowie...Blackstar

Jean Michel Jarre....Electronica the art of noise 2

James Bay....Chaos and the Calm.
by PiF
Wed May 11, 2016 8:14 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 2
Replies: 0
Views: 1671

Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 2

Okay We have established that by some margin that the largest majority on numerous polls have said that the membership and some of avens own team feel mods/admin roles should be for a fixed term...the 2 year term is inline with a successfull way of operating the same standard WITHIN the backroom alr...
by PiF
Wed May 11, 2016 1:06 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1
Replies: 5
Views: 1638

Re: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1

Arcmchair quarterback no..we don't play those silly sports, even the ball is the wrong shape for football :lol: but backseat driver is is a term we use :lol: I will be later on today doing the part 2 about how we achieve accountability through elections in aven but your post Nancy warranted a reply ...
by PiF
Tue May 10, 2016 7:09 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1
Replies: 5
Views: 1638

Re: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1

I think what the discussion will bring, some are already starting to show thier true colours, oooooo it will mean extra elections erm nope..as they all joined on mostly different dates and not all on the same day, then they would be staggered throughout the year and not one big hit as some are tryin...
by PiF
Tue May 10, 2016 2:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1
Replies: 5
Views: 1638

Avens admins and mods 2 year tenure..part 1

Normally I would include this in the aven thread, we do as a whole, try to keep aven stuff in that thread. On this occasion though and as it keeps coming up I felt it might help some to see a clearer picture rather than the usual way aven deals with it where a member/members asking why not and the a...
by PiF
Mon May 09, 2016 12:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I know on this post a npo was mentioned and coles said she was going to write a longer reply as she understood the frustration (Post 25)...But nothing at all since her post on 10th March http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/135123-it-maintenance/ I know on this post Michael said there would be an anno...
by PiF
Mon May 09, 2016 8:00 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 302006

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

So, the multiple member polls that asked for a timed limit on admods roles in regards to how long....still ignored 2015 census...closed in November.....still not being made avaliable to anyone let alone those who took part No tech assist since 2012....because those who can..do not trust their member...
by PiF
Sat May 07, 2016 11:59 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: Thank you
Replies: 2
Views: 1571

Re: Thank you

Ta daaaa..cheers again to those fixing it :clap:
by PiF
Thu May 05, 2016 4:41 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: what happened on your weird day?
Replies: 6
Views: 2224

Re: what happened on your weird day?

My dad who's 78 phoned me in a panic and said " My cable box is telling me to ring the police" What? says I? he says that the box display is showing 999 (which is the number for the police in the uk) it turns out the bbc is channel 101 on his cable box and without knowing it, he had presse...