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by KAGU143
Sat Oct 22, 2016 7:08 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist
Replies: 9
Views: 3531

Re: How to become one with being asexual: become a nudist

I have no idea? There was a time, back in the 70s, when I was very uninhibited about being nude or being around other nude people. I was young, though, and it didn't take very long for me to figure out that my indifference to nudity wasn't shared by my friends, all of whom were sexuals. For them, it...
by KAGU143
Mon Oct 17, 2016 7:00 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.
Replies: 8
Views: 4737

Re: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.

It is perfectly possible that you could be asexual, and asexuals are interesting because statistically they are much more likely to be attracted to people based purely on their character or interests, etc, rather than their sex, and that attraction is not sexual in nature. It can be intellectual or ...
by KAGU143
Sun Oct 09, 2016 9:53 am
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.
Replies: 8
Views: 4737

Re: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.

That makes sense on a lot of levels.
Here's a thought: Have you ever tried to make your own image match the image that you find compelling? I mean, with the clothes and facial hair and etc?
If you did, what do you think would happen? Or if you have, what happened?
by KAGU143
Tue Sep 27, 2016 6:45 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.
Replies: 8
Views: 4737

Re: Is it sexuality? Is it fetish? Not sure what to do with it.

Martinicus, first let me welcome you to Apositive and assure you that your English is excellent. :) There are native speakers who can't write as clearly as you have. Your situation is a new one for me. I'm going to think about it, do some research, and add some more comments later, but in the meanti...
by KAGU143
Thu Sep 15, 2016 4:57 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 310153

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Glad to see you back and posting again, Guvnor! 'Sorry you've been ill. :(
I hope you're feeling better?
by KAGU143
Mon Sep 05, 2016 7:45 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Banned from AVEN, so I came here
Replies: 5
Views: 2764

Re: Banned from AVEN, so I came here

That's a complaint that I hear pretty often around here. Sorry that happened to you, but welcome to Apositive. :) It's going to seem dead around here compared to AVEN, but you would have to do something horrendous to get banned. In fact, I don't think I've ever banned anybody other than spammers. (N...
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 27, 2016 3:35 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is interracial dating the new form of slavery? TMI
Replies: 2
Views: 2592

Re: Is interracial dating the new form of slavery? TMI

I confess, I didn't want to spend 23+ minutes watching the video because I am sick to death of hearing about racism and everything that pertains to it. We are all racists to varying degrees because we are human and fear of the stranger is hardwired into our DNA. Admitting that to ourselves and then ...
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 27, 2016 7:34 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 310153

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

I understand your point, and I would agree that becoming transparent at this point in time could cause some serious headaches at AVEN. People need to know in advance that anything they say could and might be used against them. Changing the rules after the fact would be horribly unfair, and doing tha...
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 27, 2016 7:04 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Anyone have any hobbies/creative activities?
Replies: 3
Views: 1882

Re: Anyone have any hobbies/creative activities?

Those are WONDERFUL! The Welcome Back comics made me smile. :) I've never been a big fan of ambient music but I really enjoyed some of your music tracks and I tried to "like" them but it wanted me to sign up in order to do it. (I avoid signing up for anything unless I absolutely need it.) ...
by KAGU143
Wed Aug 24, 2016 8:37 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 310153

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

The more things change, the more they stay the same. I suppose that I could also include myself in the group of admods who finally got tired of the drama in AVEN's backroom and gave up, but there was more to it than that. I also had this place to deal with (as well as real life) and I didn't want to...
by KAGU143
Tue Aug 16, 2016 9:40 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hiya!
Replies: 1
Views: 1428

Re: Hiya!

Hi Touka, and welcome to Apositive! :D You might be asexual or you might not be. It's almost impossible for anybody else to tell you, since asexuality, like any other sexual orientation, is defined by what you WANT to do - not what you do because you feel pressured in some way. I used to feel uncomf...
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 13, 2016 4:00 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi I'm Yato, you might know me from AVEN
Replies: 1
Views: 1523

Re: Hi I'm Yato, you might know me from AVEN

Hi Yato, and welcome to Apositive. :D I'm from AVEN too, sort of, but it has been quite a few years since I was active on a regular basis. I'm member number 900 and something (I think it might be 931?) so that should give you an idea about how long ago I joined. I watched it grow up from being a sma...
by KAGU143
Sun Aug 07, 2016 1:49 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi there
Replies: 5
Views: 2287

Re: Hi there

By all means! I would be very happy to check it out. :D
by KAGU143
Sat Aug 06, 2016 10:33 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi there
Replies: 5
Views: 2287

Re: Hi there

Let me know if I have parsed this correctly. I'm trying to sift out the 3 features which you believe are characteristic of those who identify as asexual. (In some ways, I'm very list-oriented so this approach will help me to clarify things in my own mind.) Those who identify as asexual: 1) Have roma...
by KAGU143
Fri Aug 05, 2016 11:06 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi there
Replies: 5
Views: 2287

Re: Hi there

Welcome to Apositive, Catriona. Of course! Publish away! We don't have a lot of active members, but the ones that we do have are generally very helpful and I'm sure they will be willing to offer some input. I will definitely help, and I think my husband will also, if I point it out to him. (We are b...
by KAGU143
Wed Aug 03, 2016 6:55 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 310153

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

That does rather hint at a double standard. I don't think a member who joined AVEN for the express purpose of harassing one of their members would be allowed to stay there for very long, and yet there were a few (very few) who came here to do exactly that. Of course, the moderating policy is differe...
by KAGU143
Tue Jul 26, 2016 9:34 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!
Replies: 2395
Views: 310153

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

You will find a LOT of people who aren't happy with AVEN's system of warnings and nudges. As for the idea of term limits . . . I can see both sides. There is something to be said for stability, and that would favor having at least a core group of permanent admods, but there also needs to be a way fo...
by KAGU143
Fri Jul 15, 2016 8:10 pm
Forum: Asexuality
Topic: Is it time to remove the term Grey Asexual ?
Replies: 8
Views: 5614

Re: Is it time to remove the term Grey Asexual ?

Ha! Welcome back, Thrasymachus. :mrgreen: I thought it had seemed unusually friendly and peaceful around here lately. :lol: Language, as perhaps you know, is a constantly evolving means of communication. No amount of wishing will change that fact, and whether or not you approve of AVEN, they managed...
by KAGU143
Fri Jul 15, 2016 7:58 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Please help
Replies: 6
Views: 3379

Re: Please help

From what I know of college, the image that a private college tries to project to potential paying customers can be very different from the reality that is experienced by the student body. It's reasonable to assume that you won't be the only student who has been SENT there. Granted, there will be so...
by KAGU143
Thu Jul 14, 2016 10:03 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Please help
Replies: 6
Views: 3379

Re: Please help

Hi Allie, and welcome to Apositive. :) First, take a deep breath and calm down. If you really are asexual it isn't a catastrophe, don't worry, because asexuals can still do everything that a sexual person can do - the main difference is that they are more likely to be attracted to people based on th...
by KAGU143
Thu Jul 07, 2016 5:56 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?
Replies: 10
Views: 3434

Re: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?

You and Barney are both lookin' GOOD, Tanwen!
I was pretty proud of you guys for getting so close on Saturday, and I had missed the news of you doing so well on Sunday. Way to go!!
Congratulations to both of you.
by KAGU143
Thu Jul 07, 2016 8:08 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?
Replies: 10
Views: 3434

Re: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?

Ack! I can't believe they would make you wait so long to get your results. I mean . . . shouldn't something like, oh . . . say, malignancy, be a high priority? (If it isn't, mind = blown!) Maybe the fact that they haven't seen any need to contact you right away is good news. *fingers crossed* And - ...
by KAGU143
Tue Jul 05, 2016 10:47 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: last N days
Replies: 8
Views: 4575

Re: last N days

I found it! It had to be activated separately for each forum.
It appears to be working now. Check it out. :)
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 04, 2016 3:20 pm
Forum: Feedback
Topic: last N days
Replies: 8
Views: 4575

Re: last N days

Okay, I enabled something in the "feeds" category that was disabled.
I'm still not getting any response from active topics, which is weird because that's what it said that it was for, but new posts is working for me now. :eh:
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 04, 2016 2:31 pm
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?
Replies: 10
Views: 3434

Re: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?

PiF, I have decided to leave your post as it is, un-edited, although you should know better than to post PMs without getting permission from the other party. If I start removing things that I don't approve of then I might as well resort to having hidden forums, and you already know how I feel about ...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 04, 2016 7:52 am
Forum: General Discussions and Fun
Topic: Split from: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?
Replies: 10
Views: 3434

Re: A Thought: A Acenegative Ace?

Ciri, you haven't done anything at all, other than be yourself, which is okay around here. I'm glad to see you. Where have you been? The only one missing around here is PiF. He accused me of doing something that I didn't do, and then he continued to accuse me of it after I TOLD him that I didn't do ...
by KAGU143
Mon Jul 04, 2016 7:20 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: last N days
Replies: 8
Views: 4575

Re: last N days

Hmmm. You're right. I will ask Karl about it.
(Although I will investigate it first by myself, just because I feel like I should try. Maybe something isn't activated?)
by KAGU143
Sun Jul 03, 2016 11:22 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: last N days
Replies: 8
Views: 4575

Re: last N days

It has been excruciatingly dull around here lately . . . *sigh*
by KAGU143
Sun Jul 03, 2016 5:40 am
Forum: Feedback
Topic: last N days
Replies: 8
Views: 4575

Re: last N days

If you click on the "Quick Links" symbol on the upper right hand corner of the page, right under the main header, it will give you a drop-down menu that has several options, including new posts, unanswered posts, active topics, members, and etc.

Is this what you need?
by KAGU143
Sat Jul 02, 2016 5:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Scared of IRL relationships.
Replies: 17
Views: 5083

Re: Scared of IRL relationships.

I miss Caliguy35. :(