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Postby Touka » Mon Aug 15, 2016 9:36 pm

Hello. I have many questions about myself that I'm hoping this website will help me find. I believe I'm asexual, but where I fall along the spectrum I have no clue. Thinking about having sex with someone has never crossed my mind and personally I find the act discusting. Although I have a sex drive and act upon it occasionally. I find men asthetically pleasing but seeing them nude makes me feel indifferent and uncomfortable. I'm just really confused and want to know where I fall.

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Re: Hiya!

Postby KAGU143 » Tue Aug 16, 2016 9:40 pm

Hi Touka, and welcome to Apositive! :D

You might be asexual or you might not be. It's almost impossible for anybody else to tell you, since asexuality, like any other sexual orientation, is defined by what you WANT to do - not what you do because you feel pressured in some way.

I used to feel uncomfortable seeing nude men, but that changed when I started doing life drawing in art class. Of course, the flip side of that is that now if I see a nude man I start looking around for a sketchpad and charcoal. But that's progress, right? ( I hope.) :P
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