I have come in peace! I don't know where I fit into any of this, but the way it is for me is that I'm very interested in sex, but cannot perform with a partner, so I get asked if I'm asexual sometimes, and wonder about it. It seems to me that what I can get off on is something that amounts to watching myself have sex from a distance: a kind of disassociation, I guess, but when I'm with a partner, I can't maintain the distance. I can't see myself (maybe) and I lose it. And then they think I'm asexual. Oh. BTW. This has been going on for about 55 years now (I'm 65) and 40 years of therapy didn't change it in the least. My wife is very sexual, and to her, I'm asexual. Some feedback? Oh. Very strong on the introversion scale, too.
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