Asexual phone sex

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Asexual phone sex

Postby PiF » Thu Apr 02, 2015 3:50 am

It seems a silly thing given that most of us are dare i say....pre internet/mobile phone but...most asexuals who have a relationship do seem to be with sexuals.

I don't like the blanket theory that all sexual women walk around continually moist and all sexual men constantly walk around with a hard on..these days I genuinely feel with life being so stressful that sex is very low down on the table of importance.

That said I also do not like the constant assumption asexuality means we do not like sex..it simply means we do not have sexual attraction inbuilt

so at some point most of us will have met a sexual who has sex low on the radar matched with most..it seems...asexuals who are willing to compromise.

Phone sex seems to be often in many news and some times asexual websites .... being asexual however means we have to be a bit more creative ..in many ways it's like sex..finding the ability to satisfy a partners need/s whilst at the same time remaining in a boundary your comfortable with.

so..without the need to go into too much detail if you do not want...have you ever phone sexed...why..how did you feel before and after..and how did your partner feel?..i'll comeback to this after a few days and have a further input but would welcome others inputs

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Re: Asexual phone sex

Postby cdrdash » Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:38 am

I have never had phone sex. The first time I heard about it, it didn't make sense to me or appeal to me at all. Still doesn't appeal to me but I can at least make sense of it. Even if I were sexual I would probably not want phone sex just because I'm not comfortable on phones in general and doing something that intimate on the phone makes me shudder a little. Although one positive about phone sex with a man that popped right in my head was no need for birth control.
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Re: Asexual phone sex

Postby PiF » Thu Apr 02, 2015 6:31 am

A good point, come to think about Cathy...no sti's, no awkward going to bed with hiedi klum and waking up with honey boo boos mum and of course the best one...no damp patches to lie in afterwards

The downsides seem to be mostly revenge porn where a current partner becomes an ex and then seeks to hurt you by posting the messages/pictures all over the place to hurt you..a lot of youngsters seem to have been on the end of this which is sad

for me it became like sex..very planned and regimented..I've probably done it with 3 partners but no pictures or video...no way...they don't do widescreen smartphones yet :lol: :lol: but honestly..i thought it was silly and unecessary but..being sex positive...saw the benefits to those relationships and of course for me it was harmless fun.

Like doing the pelvic mumba...i can take it or leave it but prefer to leave it

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Re: Asexual phone sex

Postby KAGU143 » Sat Apr 04, 2015 10:39 am

The whole concept of phone sex just confuses me, but I understand that there are some who like it. *shrugs* At least it's safe.
It doesn't interest me on any level.
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Re: Asexual phone sex

Postby PiF » Sat Apr 04, 2015 11:05 am

I must admit the first time I ever heard the term i thought...why on earth would someone want to stick a mobile up their bottom?

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Re: Asexual phone sex

Postby Caliguy35 » Mon Sep 07, 2015 5:16 pm

Phone sex has now become sex-texting. Well if a different level is webcam sex/ or self pleasure. So yeah I've done it before... I am just a freak. I question if I am asexual at all. :D