Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

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Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

Postby Ace Amoeba » Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:51 pm

I have some good news, I was finally able to transfer and continue my career within walking distance of my residence. Goodbye commute! I am going to miss the people I’ve worked with and served for years and will especially be missing a flirtationship I have been having throughout this period. A flirtationship is a rapport with someone that is not a relationship, but does involve consistent flirting over a period of time. Those involved in a flirtationship may or may not want to take it further. It’s not a bad arrangement for an asexual. Many times, flirtationships end when they become relationships. Other times, one or all parties become disinterested and it comes to a halt that way. In this particular case neither of these is the case. It’s all circumstantial. I am not interested in taking it to another level. All good things must come to an end. I don’t actually believe this but it is certainly a good thing that is coming to an end

Reflecting on this experience, I can certainly say that I had an advantage in that sexual tension was on my side, as it usually is in these situations. Still, being cautious was key as there is a line that doesn’t need to be crossed. It’s never a good idea to “heat up” a sexual person unless one plans to make some serious compromises! I’ve made sure to not get too heavy and use all eye contact, facials, and body language in that level of the flirtation. The verbal end of it on my part was playful teasing, about mundane details about personality, clothing, habits, hairstyle, and similar material.

So how does a person behave when a flirtationship ends abruptly like the one in question is about to do. Should I just go about my business as usual and leave unceremoniously? An emotional goodbye that is the antithesis of the casual nature of our time together? Do I call out sick the final week to avoid the situation altogether? Decisions, Decisions, oh what a ponder!

All I can do is use the one thing that will never fail me. Asexual Prowess. I’ve discovered that I have sharp asexual prowess that I can use to solve problems like this. By going with what feels natural, my asexual prowess kicks itself into motion. Through asexual prowess my mind will be in the clear and I will maintain a calm outlook to aid in the all important decision-making process.

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Re: Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

Postby forgetmyself » Thu Jun 11, 2009 5:04 pm

Flirtationships are all about fun! Don't call in sick, flirt right up until the last minute. Then share a hug.

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Re: Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

Postby Pamcakes » Wed Aug 04, 2010 10:45 pm

Why not flick them an email, and continue this lovely little flirtation you have going via chat, from time to time? :)

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Re: Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

Postby Our Ga Apparel » Mon Oct 25, 2010 10:20 am

Haha I have never heard that called a flirtationship but I like that word! I will sometimes have these with sexuals because they dont know that I'm uninterested in anything but fun! ;)


Re: Asexual on Sexual "Flirtationship"

Postby disjointed » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:19 am

if you had a bad meal would you stop eating?

Flirtiation for me has always been about fun..showing someone you get on with that because your asexual your not emotionally dead

and more importantly..I like it