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Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2016 4:57 am
by KAGU143
Glad to see you back and posting again, Guvnor! 'Sorry you've been ill. :(
I hope you're feeling better?

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2016 8:28 am
by Tanwen
Sorry you've been ill - I've missed you and should've reached out and feel guilty for not doing it. Glad that you're better's to more fruit and veg wars :D

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 3:37 pm
by Thrasymachus
Thom wrote:Based on discussions I've had with those I've met from AVEN, the members that are disliked by admins and moderators will have the rules morphed in such a way that they'd warrant a warn for that member. However, if the member that they do like said the same thing, they'd get away with it. Everything that the admins and moderators do on AVEN is subject to their own bias towards that specific member.

That is what happens when outcast nerds who have no friends are presented with social structures online that they could gain power from. They find the cracks and develop ways to the game system so that is unfair for non-outcasts. I just spent most of my time absent here on the well known metastasized IGN vidya gaming board and chanboard that is Reddit. There too most the top-level moderators and admins are either liberal nerds or alt-right, dark-enlightenment type nerds and they all have irc channels, slack chats, discord chats. It seemed to me that Reddit's problem was a small clique of people with too much time where politicking enough in related IRC channels to moderate dozens, a hundred or even more top-level subreddits with other power moderators they befriended which created a perverse value system that most people would never want to deal with.

What happens is that outcast, surly nerds no one wants to deal with tend to dominate online spaces that don't take measures because no one will else will invest so much time in discussion boards, a medium like Reddit, etc.. But toxic nerds will. That is why I railed so much against surrogate socialization on AVEN. If you are no-life geek, you can spend enough time on AVEN sucking and making "online friends" with those who have stupid online forum power you can have advantageous double standards applied to you -- while your detractors are warned for much milder behavior. I believe I got warned there for such trivial nonsense, but I could not remember without logging in since I don't really care about that forum. But in my brief stint I definitely saw surrogate socializers making friends with the in-crowd of AVEN(which would make them real life outcasts) running roughshod over those who just saw it as a forum. I think it on AVEN it worse as they act like they can serve the same function as LGBT activists, the mental health field and sexually confused people come there and find such a toxic environment that will only screw up their headspace. It would be better if that forum disappeared, seriously.

AVEN is full of lots of people with nothing better to do that rack up far more than 10,000+ posts who just need to get off the net and socialize more in real life.

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2017 9:04 am
by Ciri
I've disabled messages and changed my email address on AVEN to an email I'm unable to validate. And blocked everyone on Skype.

I'm not replying to any of their messages until they've gotten over this mind reading bullshit. Then I might discuss it with people.

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2017 8:16 pm
by KAGU143
Mind reading?? What the hell are they on about now?

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Sun Sep 03, 2017 2:06 pm
by Ciri
Well for a start, they think it's ok to send a staff member over to another site to invade another staff members privacy and gain personal details about them.

Then deny it ever happened.

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2018 3:13 pm
by Ciri
So I've withdrawn from every volunteer group I have ever helped in the asexual community and left everywhere too.

Basically, I got kicked off the staff group for reasons the majority of Admods can't even explain themselves. Basically, 'the BoD' made me do it. Then they applied a new rule retroactively and kicked me off AVENues which they don't even have jurisdiction over. Then had the cheek to invite me to help elsewhere. I informed them that if I wasn't good enough for one, then I'm not helping with anything else either.

I've said over and over that people had gone onto other websites to find out private information about me and have been warned 3 times so far for saying this happened - apparently the accusation is inflammatory.

I got the threads in question declassified and found that this, in fact, had happened and that I was spot on. Multiple people have lied to my faces over it. They've warned me for putting Aven in a bad light when they themselves have done that, I was just letting everybody know about it. When confronted with the evidence, they continue to deny it happened when it's written there in black and white.

This is a warning:

If the staff member in question is willing to give private information from another website to Aven, what private information about Avenites are they giving to that other website.

"Ciri doesn't trust easily and is quick to lose trust."

And for good reason, you backstabbing Judas's. You're selling Aven and it's members out while appearing like you care. I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you. I've always acted in the best interest of the security of Aven members, but you barely care when 2 Avenites are using Meetup Mart to stalk me in real life. Pity I can't say you give a damn about the security of Aven.

Re: Remind me Never EVER look at AVEN again!

Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2018 3:32 pm
by KAGU143
I'm sorry to hear about that, Ciri. Apositive hasn't quite gone up in smoke yet, so feel free to come here and vent.
Bring friends!